Young people with low emotional intelligence who participate in these three kinds of dinners tend to offend leaders and have no good relationship

Recently, I saw such a case on the Internet, which also touched the author very much, because a female college student Xiao Li complained: Not long ago, when she was on a business trip with her boss, she encountered a strange thing. At that time, Xiao Li was confessed by the client and had already declined politely, but the boss of the company thought that Xiao Li should not miss such an opportunity, because the company's client assets were tens of millions, and he hoped that Xiao Li would know each other, but Xiao Li already had a boyfriend and was unwilling to do so. On such an occasion, he chose to compromise, so Xiao Li left on the spot. After returning to the company, he also gave up his current job, because he felt that he could not make himself without dignity and bottom line for work.

Now, after entering the workplace, I don’t know if you have noticed that many young people will encounter some embarrassing things. When you go to a dinner party or a dinner party, you often say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing and don’t understand the rules. It breaks the atmosphere, offends the leader, and makes oneself unpopular, so the author here also reminds everyone that often those young people with low emotional intelligence will lose their jobs because they do not understand the rules when they participate in the following three kinds of dinners, so everyone must Learn the rules and avoid making mistakes.

First, to participate in ordinary dinners, many employees invite colleagues to dinner in order to ask for help or have a better relationship with their leaders. In this case, it is not a formal occasion. As an employee, it should be necessary to invite When a colleague eats, pay in advance at the checkout, because if you always pretend to pay, but in the end let your boss or colleague expose your lies, thinking that you are too cautious and not very generous, then you will attend dinner later. When you have a dinner party, no one wants to have any closer contact with you. There are still many young people who like to drink with their colleagues. They waste a lot of money and let their colleagues pay for it. It is also easy to offend people.

Second, for company dinners, young people should pay attention to the corresponding rules when participating in formal occasions such as company dinners, because everyone from different departments and different colleagues should also try to coordinate when chatting together, because if You always offend others when you discuss work or related topics at dinner parties, then you will affect each other's relationship at dinner parties. Leaders invite employees to dinner is for the atmosphere of the team, so everyone in the team must go through leaders Agree to leave without permission.

If you always do something to offend and embarrass the leader at the dinner party, then the leader will not give you a better position at the dinner party.

Third, when you are invited to a dinner party by a customer, you should understand more when you go to an important dinner party with your boss or leader. Be polite when negotiating business with your clients, and don't leave a bad impression on your clients, because if you always offend clients for trivial things.

Over time, if you are in the company, you will directly offend the leader during the dinner party, and your position in the company may not be guaranteed.