When participating in important dinners, you should be more careful. When encountering three situations, don't lose control of your emotions.
Recently, the author saw such a case in the forum and was very touched, because a female college student was unwilling to drink when attending the company's annual meeting, and she also did not know how to drink, and did not want to learn to drink. As a result, she was mocked by colleagues and supervisors in turn. , the supervisor has found female college students many times to persuade them to drink alcohol, hoping that the female college students can integrate into the atmosphere of the company more quickly. The female college students couldn’t bear it anymore, so they angrily angered the supervisor to make things difficult for her, but they did not expect that after losing control of their emotions, the female college students would be the first I was fired from the company in 2 days, because both the company director and the boss felt that female college students did not understand the rules, and if you let such employees stay in the company, it may affect the company's future development.
In recent years, after entering the workplace, many young people actually hope that they can achieve better development, so everyone will keep participating in various dinner parties, hoping to maintain a good relationship with the leaders during company dinners , so as to be recognized and appreciated by the leaders, but they all say that guarding against others is indispensable, so everyone should also be a little bit scheming and keep an eye on the dinner party, because when participating in an important dinner party, if you encounter this When there are three situations, you will find that your emotions are out of control, you are likely to be distracted by the villain, and you will also directly offend the leader.
First, learn to be calm when you are ridiculed by your colleagues. When you attend a company dinner, you will actually find that many colleagues see your performance as too bright, so they will consciously be indifferent to you or alienate you, so that you will be calculated during the dinner. , Some villains will even slander you in front of your boss, say bad things about you and hit your small reports, so everyone must maintain a good attitude when facing these ridicules or being misunderstood by colleagues, in order to avoid being misunderstood by leaders, Then you can list some cases or work situations, so that the leaders can regain their trust in you.
- Embarrass others by persuading others to drink. Some employees do not want to drink and do not know how to drink, but they are always persuaded by some villains. If they do not drink, they are likely to offend colleagues and villains, but they are drinking. After that, it will even affect your physical and mental health, so everyone must figure out what the problem is, so that you can deal with the problem and solve the problem. If you lose control of your emotions after being persuaded by colleagues for many times, then you will only be stupid. Being ridiculed by colleagues, misunderstood by leaders, and even likely to cause you to lose your job, so everyone should clearly understand this when attending dinner parties, so as to leave a good impression on leaders during dinner parties.
Third, when you are misunderstood by the leader, don’t rush to argue with the leader, let the leader see your abilities and advantages. In fact, the leader can understand what kind of employee you are. We all know that there are many All employees want to be able to show their abilities in the dinner. Whether it is speaking ability or other abilities, everyone should learn to be more low-key, because if you are misunderstood by the leader, then the attitude of the leader will be cold to you. Hot, in the face of this situation, as an employee, you must get along with the leader cautiously, and you should learn to adjust your mentality when speaking and doing things.