Social unspoken rules: These three kinds of villains seem to be brothers with you, but in fact, the relationship is broken.

Workplace case:

After working in an Internet company, Ms. Lin, a female master, found that she was being tricked by the supervisor. Because she had a close relationship with the supervisor in the company, she planned to invite the supervisor to dinner in private. However, when Ms. Li and other colleagues were drinking together While chatting, she found that the supervisor left the venue early and took the opportunity to pack a meal of 200 yuan. After the checkout, Ms. Li was dumbfounded, because she felt that the supervisor was really the kind of villain who likes to take advantage of small things. Since then, Ms. Li has never invited the supervisor to dinner, and the supervisor's reputation in the company has become worse and worse.

In recent years, many employees hope that they can have a high-quality social circle and interpersonal circle after entering social work, so as to form a bridge between themselves and the society, and then have a successful career in the society, but everyone is dealing with it. When it comes to interpersonal relationships, I find it difficult to call myself brothers with some so-called friends, because these little people seem to be very close to you, but when they encounter trouble, they run away and break up when they say it is.

First, wine and meat friends

In fact, there are many alcoholic friends in interpersonal relationships. They can enjoy with you when they are eating, drinking, and having fun, and they don't need to spend their money. They are just taking the opportunity to take advantage of you. will have a long relationship with you. Everyone is not stupid. Everyone hopes to rely on you in front of you when there are interests to contend for, but once you have no value, your friends will really leave you behind and hide away immediately. Therefore, everyone should stop sharing misfortunes with them and sharing blessings, because this relationship is very fragile.

Second, friends who get together for the benefit

Even though there are many young people in interpersonal communication who meet more strangers for the sake of profit, everyone gathers together and focuses on interests. In fact, interest is the most realistic thing. Everyone needs to cooperate with different strangers, but once the value is used up, it becomes a very real situation, and you will become more and more lonely in the company. Moreover, these friends who have no feelings may be beaten up at that time.

Third, the villain who doesn't know how to repay the gift

People are also common in the company or in society, because when they are in trouble, if you can help them, they will remember your goodness in times of crisis, but after a period of time, they will put the relationship between you relationship has become increasingly impersonal. In interpersonal relationships, this is also a more troublesome mode. Everyone lives independently in this world, but when they take the initiative to interact with friends, they find that it is impossible for you to communicate with each other. Some villains don't want to be asked for, and they don't want to pay blindly.