Five words, see through people, see a standard

We have to see through a person and see clearly what his nature is like before we can decide how we get along with him. Many people often fall into a misunderstanding when looking at people, only from his speech and behavior. Looking at it, in the editor's opinion, if you want to see through a person, you only need to follow the following five ideas, and you can basically achieve the results you want.

【1】A look at the motives are bright and dark.

That is to say, when a person communicates with you, his motives are very clear, or very vague. Those things are very clear, but we have a deep understanding in our hearts. We are very good, but we don't know why we are good to us, what kind of help we can provide to him, this is the most terrifying, we don't know what kind of mystery is hidden behind him, this is the first person who wants to see people thinking.

[2] Second, see how the benefits are obtained.

From the way and thinking that a person obtains benefits, one can also see through the nature of this person. If he uses legitimate channels to obtain benefits, it means that this person is worth interacting with. If the way he obtains benefits itself is not through normal channels, That shows that this problem is very serious, and you have to be a little more careful when dealing with such people.

【3】Three see the popularity and lack of popularity.

If a person's character is very good, or if the person is very likable, his popularity must be very good. If he doesn't even have a decent friend by his side, you dare to talk to him about such a person. dating? Many people know this is the case, but they just don't want to admit it.

[4] Four see how to treat the mother.

If a person does not have a very good attitude towards his own mother, or does not have a normal attitude when it comes to honoring his parents, it shows that the nature of this person is very bad, no matter how good he is to you, This kind of person must give up having in-depth contacts with him, and don't let himself be polluted.

[5] Fifth, see what the response is.

When dealing with people, the response of others to you can also show his state of mind. If he can respond to you in a timely manner, and respond to your demands by all means, it shows that this person is still worth interacting with. Considering the above several judgment methods together, you will know how to treat this kind of person.