Why are many class leaders reluctant to organize class reunions? The squad leader revealed the real reasons, very helpless

Nowadays, in the eyes of most people, class reunions are actually very meaningful. You have many friends and classmates. You can also record these relationships during the reunion, and then help yourself to have a better development and career, because today There are people who have connections and resources in our society, and you can use these resources to help you do things and develop a better career, but now the nature of class reunions has changed in the eyes of many people, especially when paying for the bill, some students even like Taking advantage of it will also make many organizers feel very chilled.

Not long ago, the author saw such a case in the forum. After the class reunion ended, three female classmates chose to escape the order and sneaked away. As the organizer, the monitor is also very disappointed, because this time the classmates Everyone at the party has to pay 300 yuan, and the monitor is no exception. However, these three female students secretly left after drinking for three rounds. Many students didn't realize it. The monitor only realized that there was less than 1,000 yuan at the checkout. , so he took the initiative to pay 1,000 yuan in advance.

In fact, when he was in college, the monitor felt that these classmates were of good quality, but now after the class reunion, he also found that these female classmates had changed their way of thinking through the power of work and society. During the class reunion, I got a lot of resources and contact information for my classmates, but their reputation was affected by evading orders. Therefore, those classmates who don’t know how to weigh the pros and cons will not get better connections in any place. Because no customer or leader wants to trust them.

the author thinks:

Nowadays, many young people participate in parties or dinners in the hope of making their network value stronger. In fact, if there is no network and no resources, everyone can only do some low-income things in ordinary jobs. However, if you can make more contacts and a lot of strangers to achieve value exchange at the party, you will find that the other party will provide you with any help when they need you, because your ability can match your contacts and circles. Matching, so you can adapt as soon as possible, otherwise you will find that your network will only be empty in the end, and your reputation is being greatly affected, and everyone doesn’t want to be friends with you anymore, and they don’t want to break up with you. , you will get a negative answer in any location.

Many young people just ask for it, but they don't realize that their behavior has not been recognized in the dinner party. Maybe you can be appreciated by others by flattering or being respectful in the dinner party, but once you always have some emotional intelligence Low behavior or the performance of taking advantage of you will disgust you for convenience, and you will no longer want to build a network of contacts with you, and your reputation in the industry is also excluded from the circle of classmates, and you will also be isolated.