When encountering these three kinds of villains at important dinners, honest people should keep in mind that they are not worth deep friendship.
Workplace case:
Not long ago, the author saw a female college student, Ms. Li, sharing her work experience. She attended a company dinner shortly after joining the company. Because the supervisor received a year-end bonus of 100,000 yuan, many employees felt that the supervisor should invite guests to dinner this time, but The supervisor did not choose to refuse, so he invited the employees to eat after get off work and asked them to go to KTV to sing. However, the supervisor secretly left the venue during the checkout, and the employees had to pay for the bills. Ms. Li and other employees felt that Very angry, everyone felt that the supervisor had gone too far.
Because the supervisor played the employees around, it was a very harmonious and lively company dinner, but in the end it was disturbed by the supervisor, and everyone was not in the mood to sing.
Nowadays, after entering social work, many practitioners are actually invited to dinner parties, and everyone can meet all kinds of people at the wine table. , They know the rules but they don't understand the rules, they don't understand the unspoken rules, because some of their behaviors at the wine table really make it difficult for everyone to understand clearly.
Therefore, the author also recommends that if you encounter the following three kinds of villains at important dinners, you should actually be more vigilant, because they are not worthy of your deep friendship, even if you have a deep friendship with them, you should know that these villains will only Pull your hind legs.
First, the villain who treats guests at the dinner party but does not check out
In fact, everyone always encounters such people at the dinner table. They are very hospitable and like to treat guests. They invite many people to the dinner party, but after the dinner party they like to pretend to be drunk, or pretend to call the toilet, then this After the villain sneaks away, you will find that all these bills will be settled by you. If everyone encounters such a villain, you should take the initiative to stay away, because you can't have a deep friendship with them, and these villains Avoid checking out, they will do a lot of things that are harmful to others, so if you make friends with such villains, you will find that they damage your interests and affect your mood.
Second, they like to insult others at the wine table, complaining about their poor character.
In fact, when you are in a dinner party, you can find that some friends are really not worth getting along with, because they do not know how to be polite and respect others, they like to pick and choose at the dinner table, and they don't care about everyone's feelings, when they see some colleagues or Friends are better than themselves, so they take the opportunity to abuse or complain about others, so such a villain is obviously a sign and signal of impoliteness when participating in a dinner party, so everyone should stay away from such a villain in a dinner party.
Properly rejecting their unreasonable demands can actually help you have a good reputation in front of everyone
Third, when drunk, like to say some stupid and drunk words
Some middle-aged people are happy to enjoy the meal, hoping to have deep friendship with more strangers, but some villains are too picky and self-righteous, and it is impossible to keep a happy mood all the time, because when they drink After being drunk, there will be some crazy performances. After being drunk, you can say anything. Whether it is the elders or the juniors, they will not respect them, so many people cause a lot of trouble. Therefore, it is recommended that everyone participate in the dinner. At times, if you want to gain respect from others, you should learn to respect others, so that you will not cause trouble to the people around you, and everyone will invite you to participate in the next dinner party.