Think about five sentences before going to bed, be very enlightened, and let yourself avoid detours

When we are very confused and disappointed, we are often stinged by some words, and our sensitive points are triggered by some things, which makes people suddenly enlightened, and the following five sentences, read them before going to sleep, just Being able to play such a role has allowed myself to see a lot of things that I don't understand.

【1】You still have a chance, which is the biggest chance.

Many people complain that their fate is not good, that they have encountered a lot of unfair treatment, that the environment they are in is very unfavorable to them, that no one around them is good to them, and so on. If you have this kind of thinking, first of all, it shows that your cultivation is not enough, and that your relationship with the people around you is very general. This must be your own problem. It also reflects from the side that you still have a chance, and this is your biggest chance. Once you understand this ideal, you can start working the next day, and over time, success will belong to you.

[2] The strength of inferiority is called willfulness, and the willful inferiority is called stubbornness.

Everyone has a different understanding of willfulness. In any case, we cannot equate toughness with willfulness. Only by clarifying the relationship between inferiority, toughness, willfulness and stubbornness can you know how to face difficulties and how to see people clearly. Don't be deceived by the fake efforts of others.

[3] The better you prepare today, the more opportunities you will have tomorrow.

As for doing things, you must prepare for tomorrow's things today, so that you will not panic the next day, develop such a habit for a long time, and you will not feel tired when you do anything, develop such a habit, and One advantage is that when you really have something to do the next day, you can finish the day's work in very little time, because you have made sufficient preparations yesterday, stick to this good habit, and you will have many opportunities tomorrow. .

[4] Jealousy will only increase the achievements of others; Complaining will only affect your own state of mind.

Regarding jealousy, many people can't control it. The essence of the idea is that they don't want to make others feel good. In fact, they have exposed their true mentality before. Ordinary people can stimulate the enthusiasm of others. Therefore, your jealousy has also helped others. , will only make others better and make you worse. If you want to understand this, will you still be jealous of others? Instead of being jealous of others, let yourself work hard.

【5】Three major tragedies in life: Despair when things are not accomplished, hearts are dead when people are not old, children want filial piety but relatives are no longer there.

I don't know these three tragedies, how many have I encountered? But if one is involved, the impact on oneself will not be too small. Don't let such a tragedy happen to you.