Confused people will have these three behaviors when they attend class reunions, and will not be treated by classmates

Nowadays, many young people are actually willing to participate in class reunions after entering social work. During the reunions, they hope to see many classmates communicate with each other and be safe. However, in recent years, class reunions seem to have become a derogatory term. Intrigue, show off and compare with each other, then these students who are very small-minded will naturally be disgusting.

Recently, the author saw such a case. During the class reunion, a monitor took the initiative to settle the bill of 5,000 yuan. However, after returning home, he saw several classmates in the classmates mocking the monitor for his wealth and wealth. Obviously, the monitor The reason for clearing the bills is to make everyone more trouble-free, worry-free and money-saving, but now the female classmates think that the monitor took the opportunity to deduct a lot of money to show their status and rights. I have to say that the monitor is a good person. However, there was a lot of resentment in the hearts of his classmates, so the monitor also chose to quit the class after arguing with several female classmates, because he felt that he was not at fault at all, but the classmates were not very generous, no one take his love.

the author thinks:

First, don't be narrow-minded

Many young people now believe in the principle that everyone is for everyone, but there are also some young people who are narrow-minded and always treat the society with some weird mentality. Everyone always feels that if they are taken advantage of, they will be special. In fact, people are mutual. If you don’t respect others, then the other party will not treat you with the same attitude. They all say that you will vote for Li and reciprocate with peaches, but at the class reunion At times, some young people are unable to give others a more respectful attitude, so the two sides will gain an inch or have a big conflict because of some small things.

Second, don’t create extra branches

The author still understands and sympathizes with the monitor, because he did not lie, and hoped to use the reunion of classmates to organize a very complete network of relationships, but when these relationships were linked together, I found that some classmates always had unexpected problems. , making the squad leader hard to guard against, in fact, this is a very common and common situation.

To be precise, if there are many students in this network full of lies, then no matter how strong the network is, it will be vulnerable in the end.

Third, learn to respect others

People want to be able to do it in their life and work. Don’t do some self-deceiving things less. If you are not generous, then there is no need to be generous, because these lies will be exposed sooner or later. There are many minded classmates or friends who will feel that they have been hurt. Therefore, everyone should learn to respect others and be generous and tolerant no matter when and where, you will find that your tolerance and sincerity are influencing others. Whether it is a class reunion or a company dinner, it can actually leave a good reputation and image to others.