Classmates reunion, don't say these three self-righteous words, it is easy to be caught by classmates
Not long ago, I saw such a case of a classmate reunion. During the party, a class leader drank a few more glasses of wine and said some confused drunk words. He urged female classmates to drink alcohol many times, but the female classmate felt very embarrassed and embarrassed. , After all, the female classmates don't want to drink at all, nor do they want to learn to drink, but the monitor deliberately makes things difficult for the female classmates to fall into a dilemma.
After several times of persuasion, the female classmate responded directly: I am pregnant.
Hearing the female classmate's reply, the monitor also had nothing to say and looked very embarrassed. Many classmates were also watching the monitor's jokes. Obviously this time the monitor was too embarrassed to succeed at the wine table, but he became everyone because of his self-righteousness. the laughing stock.
Nowadays, after entering social work, many young people attend class reunions, often thinking that it is because they have worked hard in the workplace for many years, and they have already mixed well. They hope to show their abilities and income at class reunions, but everyone But I don't know that in the face of any interests, these classmates may think of themselves first, and everyone is giving priority to themselves, often ignoring others, so the author here also reminds everyone that when meeting with classmates, don't say anything. The following three self-righteous words, because your words are likely to be caught by your classmates, causing you to suffer a lot of unnecessary losses.
First, talk about your high income and bonuses at the class reunion
No matter how much salary and bonus you get in the company, you should not discuss it at the party, because not all classmates are better than you, and everyone's mentality is difficult to adjust and is particularly reasonable. If you violate their principles and bottom line, then they will hate you at the dinner party, and your heart will definitely be unbalanced. Everyone's work in the company is not as smooth as yours. If you see a classmate leaving the scene when you are discussing a topic, then you should learn to stop. Maybe your topic has caused the scene to be embarrassing.
Second, judge the marriage and family of classmates
Everyone has worked hard in society for many years. In fact, many young people have goals and ambitions, and they also have certain ambitions, but they can't control their mouths when they are at parties. Maybe they could make a fortune in silence before working, but now in When you are at a party, you deliberately show your edge, which is bound to become in the eyes of your classmates. Because you always judge your classmates’ marriage and family arbitrarily when you talk, whether others live well or badly has nothing to do with you. , If you always use this to show off and attack others, you will find that your classmates do not want to have a close relationship with you anymore, and you will not be recognized by everyone at the class reunion.
Third, it is very embarrassing for students to drink alcohol and persuade them to drink.
When everyone drinks at the wine table to their fullest, they start to feel embarrassed. The classmates think that if some female classmates don't drink, they will not give themselves face, so this kind of behavior is really very helpless and embarrassing. Not all classmates are willing to drink. , and don't want to follow the so-called rules at the wine table, so everyone should not use a set in the workplace to the class reunion.
It's not that people don't want to give you face, but they don't want to drink with you because they see that you are a time bomb in the class reunion, because they are worried that they will do some stupid things after being drunk.