People who are not doing well, please keep in mind: if you don't quit this idea, you won't be able to get ahead

Xiao Li from our unit is the administrative commissioner of the company. If I remember correctly, he has been in this position for at least eight years, and there are several good opportunities in the middle, but he always expresses his thoughts on these opportunities. I looked down on it in my heart, and I didn't catch it once.

Recently, I have chatted with him a lot, because he is a member of our conquering team. After direct contact with him, I found that his mentality is different from others. He is not dissatisfied with his current situation, but he looks righteous. , I asked him, you are fully capable of working hard for a higher position, and he replied: "It's destiny, I'm a chorus."

It took me a few minutes for this sentence to calm down.

How many people have been ruined by this idea

These four words, fate , have become the reason to explain everything. If you don't do well, you don't try to make progress, but use fate to find a way out for yourself.

If he doesn't give up this kind of thinking, no matter how good the opportunity is for him, it is useless for him. If he does well by chance, he feels that it is abnormal, but it is normal that he does not do well. When doing things, he always thinks about the worst result, so the worst result will come in the end, because, in his heart, this is destiny.

In the course of our struggle, we are not afraid of encountering problems and difficulties, but we are most afraid of a terrible mentality, which is fate. This kind of thinking is not only a kind of self-defeating, but also a kind of satisfaction with the status quo. At the bottom of the society, they can accept it calmly. When faced with opportunities, they always think that they have nothing to do with them, and everything that has something to do with them is destined to be replaced.

Therefore, if you don’t give up this idea, it is almost impossible for you to have a bright future, you can only wait to be surpassed by others, and live a more and more mediocre life, and this kind of life will get worse and worse, and success is fundamental It has nothing to do with you, and I don't know how many people are destined to be harmed by this sentence.