Smart people, for a lifetime, don't say three words, check it out, how about you?

There will always be some smart people around us. When they talk, they are always very particular, and when they are doing things, they are always very thoughtful, so that people can't find faults. Smart people will never know in their life. Say the following three sentences and compare them. Have you said them?

[1] Don't say anything about closing the coffin.

The so-called coffin conclusion is a very definite conclusion about a matter, and there is no room for negotiation on this conclusion. For smart people, they won't do such stupid things, and they won't say such choking words. Even if she has the answer in her heart, she will leave it to others, not herself. And those who like to draw conclusions will always give people a feeling of immaturity or inability to handle things. So in any case, smart people will not do such stupid things. Even if they want to express their thoughts and opinions, they will raise it euphemistically, rather than directly kill them with a stick, and conclude that this is the case. .

[2] Don't talk about adding oil and vinegar.

Adding oil and vinegar will always give people a feeling of exaggerating the facts. Even if you exaggerate for a reason, or if you exaggerate with reason, it will make people feel that you are too hypocritical and too unreal, so smart people will think about it. Say what you say in the original version, and if you don't want to say it, just hide it in your stomach, and you will never compliment others on something. In fact, many things are bad because they add oil and vinegar. This is a good thing. When you persuade others, you want to say it better. As a result, others feel that there is something wrong with what you said. At this time It is no longer important to add oil and vinegar, the important thing is that people have doubts about this matter, so the editor still recommends that you be a smart person, don't say some addicting words, don't do some addicting things, do a real thing real people.

[3] Don't say the words of cutting first and then playing.

Even if you have a thousand reasons, 10,000 reasons, there is no reason in today's society. First of all, it is disrespect to others, so as a smart person, how can they do such a thing? Even if he knows very clearly in his heart, the other party will definitely agree to his things, or agree with his ideas, and he will let him say it himself, or do it after obtaining the consent of others, sometimes it is right to do it first. An insult to one's personality is a trampling of truth and a lack of respect for others. A lot of slaughter and replay is just what you take for granted, that is, you violate some restraint. Don't take things that you think others should do as well. If you take the lead, that is not only a kind of impoliteness to others, but also a kind of connivance to yourself. Even if the situation is urgent, you must notify others as soon as possible.