Nine principles of being wise

When dealing with people, you must adhere to the principles. When you communicate with friends, you cannot do things that sell your friends. You would rather let your friends blame yourself than your own friends. You must remember the following nine basic principles of dealing with people.

[1] Don't trust people - trusting people is the source of your losses. Too many people, because they believe in the good words of others, let themselves be fooled, listen to the encouragement of others, hand over their money to others, and finally make themselves lose everything. Therefore, remember not to be too gullible.

[2] Don't crowd out people - now you crowd out others, the next one is that others unite to crowd out you. Don't think that you have a good relationship with Zhang San, just try to squeeze Li Si out. Maybe after tomorrow, Li Si will be your immediate boss. You must be open and honest, and don't do shady things.

[3] Don't say too absolute - many times, right and wrong are just a statement, without much substantive meaning, just like face, sometimes things are not as important as face. Things may change at any time, and the environment may also occur suddenly. When doing things and talking, don't say too much, and leave some measure for yourself.

[4] Don't give up your original intention - the most primitive is the most real; the most ugly is the most useful. Many people have gone a long way, and they have forgotten the various promises they made when they set out. A person forgets his original intention, and he may lose his direction while walking.

【5】Don't try to save money on a meal - when you ask someone to do something, that's the meal they care about. The Chinese people's eating culture is extensive and profound. Don't let the little thing of eating ruin your big thing.

[6] Don't be too kind to introduce your friends to others - the ones you introduce are not necessarily friends, and nine out of ten are the objects of sale. When introducing your friends to others, you must widen your eyes, and don't be betrayed by others ruthlessly.

[7] Don't take other people's words too seriously - sometimes the more serious you are, the more casual others are. When dealing with others, if you take yourself too seriously, it will seriously weaken your position in the eyes of others. You must not think of yourself as precious, and may be nothing in the eyes of others.

[8] Don't try to step on other people's shoulders - if someone else sways a little, you will fall badly. You must have a win-win mindset, rather than stepping on other people's shoulders. If you have the idea of ​​stepping on others' shoulders, you should tell them clearly, or they will give you the way.

[9] Don't be afraid of others using you - your value is amplified step by step through the use of others. Put your mind on how to make others feel that you are worthy of use, instead of worrying about yourself being used by others. Sometimes you learn to be foolishly used by others, and you will be lucky in disguise.