When a person understands these 6 truths in his life, he truly understands it!
In one's life, whether in the workplace or in the society, some truths that are often ignored by us can only be understood after suffering losses. Why not understand now, especially the following six truths:
[1] Fairness is accidental, unfairness is inevitable - many people have been indignant for a public all their lives, always believing that fairness should be, in fact, this society is inherently unfair, and you are born in a rural area without support Come on, he was born in a big city, can you have the same starting point? What you have received is compulsory education, and what he received is elite education. Can you fight against others? Therefore, fairness is accidental, and injustice is inevitable. This kind of injustice, instead of trying to break this injustice, is called a moth to a flame.
[2] If you believe in fate, your fate will not be better. If you don't believe in fate, your fate will definitely be better - you believe in your fate, and the editor thinks that it is possible for your fate to change greatly. There are very few opportunities to change your destiny by relying on others; if you don’t want to be like this, you don’t believe that the poor will be you, so you can find a way to change yourself, adapt to the rhythm of the world, and finally change your current destiny. , which is an eternal law of survival.
[3] The person who hurts you the most must be the person you trust the most, and the person who betrays you the most must be the person closest to you. Therefore, we must be prepared to accept the worst outcome - the setbacks in life are often in you It happens when you least expect it. On the eve of your longing for beauty, there will be someone, something will give you a fatal blow, and the person who harms us is also the person we least expect. The person who betrayed us is the one we put the most affection into. , give the most benefit to the person, remember: leave yourself a way back, and do a good job of playing cards at any time when the worst result occurs.
[4] Everyone knows that the villain is in the way, but everyone still takes luck and don’t dodge. What’s the use of scolding when they are upset— everyone knows that the villain is in the way, but in real life, it is necessary to Standing there, and we often rush to it in a brainless way, we won’t believe this is true until we get overwhelmed. More people choose to scold the mother there, but they can’t summarize it properly, reflect on it, and remember: learn to be with the villain. Dealing with, when you are down, scolding your mother will only waste your energy, it is better to hide.
[5] When faced with a choice between two, the more you choose the one that is beneficial to you, the less beneficial it is to you in the end. This is the root cause of suffering. We open the door when we go home. There are only two keys, and you take the first one. When we go to open, it is often the second one to open; when we choose products, we pick and choose, and the one you choose at the end is often the most dissatisfied, so when we encounter two, choose one, or choose one more. At times, the more you choose what is beneficial to you, the more wrong you are. This is the most primitive truth that suffering from losses is a blessing. Often, the one who is honest and keeps the last one gets more opportunities.
[6] The result of being complacent must be disappointment, and the result of being complacent must be miserable— people have small achievements, do small things, and always want to express themselves so proudly. The stronger your desire to express, the more frustrated you are. The more ruthless it is, if people are too complacent, the result must be very miserable. The lesson of too much blood has already verified such a simple truth, why do you still insist on doing that?