Three choices a person must make in middle age
No matter the uncle who is working hard in the workplace or the eldest brother who is proud of himself in life, as a middle-aged person, you must make a choice about the following three things.
[1] Is it offensive or defensive in the workplace?
No matter what position you are in the workplace or how high your status is, you must make this choice. If you choose to keep it, you only need to follow the steps and do what you want to do well, and there is no need to have too many If you want to go further in your career, then your lifestyle will be completely different, and you may spend less time taking care of your family. It will be much less time. Relatively speaking, the time spent on work, entertainment, dealing with interpersonal relationships, your lifestyle is completely different. If middle-aged people are still confused, want to attack and defend, the result High or low, no matter what.
【2】Do you want to go or stay?
Many middle-aged people are in foreign countries. If you want to live here for the rest of your life, then you can settle down here safely, take over your wife and children, and live together. If you don't have this plan, then make a good plan. Where do you live and which city will you continue to live this wandering life? Therefore, people must make firm choices about where to live when they reach middle age. No matter how hesitant, it’s like playing guerrillas everywhere, living here for a while today, and living in another place for a while tomorrow because of work needs or job-hopping reasons, so that your family and children will lose at least A sense of security is also a symbol of your failure in front of everyone.
[3] Whether to jump or lie down
This is also a problem that many middle-aged people struggle with, but you must make a persistent choice. If you feel that you can still make a living in this unit, and you can still make a half-office job, then you choose to lie down. If you really don't have a good opportunity, but you are not willing to have good interpersonal relationships in the unit now, and you don't have too much extravagance, you can also choose to sleep. If you don't have too much in this unit except for these two items. A good development opportunity, but the relationship with everyone is not very good, and it is very uncomfortable to do it, then choose to dance, whether it is lying or jumping, when people reach middle age, they must make a choice that persists without hesitation, otherwise If so, you may never have such a chance again, after all, age is not forgiving.