There are three kinds of emotions and two resentments in middle-aged people, how many do you account for?
After a person reaches middle age, love and hatred, resentment and sorrow will be hidden and buried to some extent, but those knots in the heart cannot be calmed and calmed anyway. these few
1. Three kinds of emotional worries in middle age
[1] Extramarital affairs that are not chaotic or chaotic - whether you admit it or not, this problem troubles everyone who is obsessed with love and infatuation, especially middle-aged people, who often fall into such a predicament There is no solution in the middle, until the heart is broken and the love is left, but this process is difficult for young people to understand and imagine the torment and torture of themselves, especially in the current era when the Internet is developed, feelings are fragile, and all kinds of temptations are rampant. It makes this kind of emotional distress to the middle-aged people deeper, and often the true feelings paid are always at the cost of being deceived or sacrificing something.
[2] Unpredictable emotional marketing - this middle-aged person should also have a deep understanding. How much of your daily WeChat is the communication information between Zhengerbajing friends? Filled with all kinds of marketing and promotion, friends have become agents, trust has become deceit, communication has become conference marketing, and this trend is still continuing. The gathering of three or five friends was originally a good thing, but it has become a fight. The emotional card forces you to buy products that you have to accept. The editor tells you that really good products don’t really need to be sold in this way, but the vast majority of those who use the emotional card to sell are not good things, they just use emotions. Just make more money, I don't know how many times you have met?
[3] Children who can't control their puppy love - the children apply for a Q number as soon as they know how to communicate, the teenage children begin to chat about their feelings, and the twelve or thirteen-year-old Mengmeng becomes a love scene" "Master" middle-aged people are full of too much helplessness about this kind of emotional sorrow. If you control it strictly, the child's rebellion will make you even more unacceptable. You don't care, tablets and mobile phones are full of these emotional things. , you worry, the child is in love there, you are not worried that the child also interacts there...
2. Two resentments in middle age
[1] The unfair resentment of the old man of time - middle- aged people are the busiest and most stressed age group in their lives. They always feel that there is not enough time. , the burden of life is full on both shoulders, always resenting the injustice of the old man of time, young people spend a lot of time to play and play games, while middle-aged people worry about not having enough time. The stark contrast makes this society look like that have no choice.
[2] The resentment of being unable to be separated - middle- aged people have too many things to do, but they suffer from no way to be separated. If they fall into the trap of feelings, it will make middle-aged people suffer even more. When you are so worried that your hair is gray, you have to keep on worrying about the bad things at home, even if the lights in the house are broken, you have to go back immediately, and when you get off work, you will be scolded again.