The way of life: two standards, one abide, three do not do
Dealing with the world may seem complicated, but it contains many principles of being a human being and doing things. Some of the ways of dealing with others are the guidelines that we must abide by:
1. Adhere to two principles
1. Go with the flow - the more you do it deliberately, the easier it is to lose it. Therefore, it is enough to go with the flow. In the chaotic world, there is a natural arrangement, so that everything happens naturally, and it is ugly in front of everyone. , If nothing happened, laugh with everyone, laugh enough, the matter will pass, try to cover up only to make it clear, many things, many people, many emotions, you can't stop it from happening, can't change its result, try to change yourself Let the time take away your sadness calmly, just let it take its course. We are ready to welcome those who should come, and we will send them away when they should go.
2. Keeping promises - what is good and what is evil, keep promises and evil can become good, if you don't keep promises, good can turn into evil, others believe you because your promises are fulfilled again and again, others obey you because you never Lies, others respect you, because you never deceive people, keep your promises, even in the face of betrayal, I am also frank;
2. Stick to a bottom line: don’t hurt people, don’t hurt people – no matter how many detours there are in life, we must stick to a bottom line, don’t hurt people’s hearts, don’t hurt people, you don’t have to help people, never You can't harm people; you can guard against people, but never harm them; what you do for others is the pattern, and what you do with others is sincerity. Maybe we will be deceived for a while, but what you get is an open heart. Bullying, honesty is not a blessing from God, remember, being a person without harming others, and preventing others without hurting others, is the bottom line of the way of life.
Three, do not do three kinds of people
1. Don't be a wicked person who falls into trouble - the benefit is not great, it is about the danger; the resentment is not too much, it is about the sadness, everyone's life is not easy, ups and downs, ups and downs, each has its own helplessness and sorrow, so when others are unfortunate , you can not give help in the snow, but you must not fall into the trap, otherwise, when you are in trouble, others will step on you coldly and ruthlessly, always have a grateful heart, and be open and upright.
2. Don't be a submissive layman - the most fearful of lack of courage and self-confidence in life, full of submissive vulgarity, if you have any ideas, you can speak frankly, ask people for help, accept praise, neatly, and submissiveness makes people look up , Seeing it is not going well, so, you must speak bluntly with others, and be honest with others, in order to have your own opinions and live a decent self.
3. Don't be a villain who thinks differently - go for profit, be clear and clear; move for love, be clear; act for righteousness, light and easy; therefore, you must be refined in your words and deeds, and you can't change your mind, day and night are different , People can't see the benefits and abandon the righteousness, and can't get the new and forget the old. Occasionally, people will forgive you, but if you do it often, everyone will abandon you, so stick to the bottom line of our life, and don't be a villain who thinks differently. .