The three most unacceptable things in middle age

Middle-aged people are a very special age group. People in this age group are old and young. They are the pillars in life and in the work unit. People who are inseparable from either side have a lot of pressure and burden. It is conceivable, therefore, to a certain extent, middle-aged people are also the most difficult age in their lives. Under this double pressure, if middle-aged people encounter the following three things, it will be really annoying. It's hard to accept, it's a very sad thing:

[1] The leaders in the unit changed back and forth, making me at a loss, and the early efforts returned to the night before liberation.

After a long period of struggle, middle-aged people have finally gained a foothold in the work unit in three to five years, more than ten years, or even more than twenty years. position, and precisely at this time, the leaders of the unit are frequently replaced, so that I am at a loss, and I don’t know how to work hard. My habitual thinking for many years has led to a small mistake, and all the previous efforts may have been wasted. Not only will the seat not be guaranteed, but the level may have to be lowered. This is something that is difficult for middle-aged people to accept in the workplace. It is very painful. It's embarrassing, very aggrieved, but helpless.

[2] When my career is looking bright and improving

The pursuit of careers by middle-aged people has never been doubted by the editor. In order to let their families live a good life, they let their parents live in good houses, let their wives drive good cars, and let their children have a better life. However, when middle-aged people are striving for their careers, they often ignore the problem of the backyard. Because they usually communicate less with their wives, and they are busy socializing every day, wives who can’t stand loneliness at home have Thinking of other ideas, I put on a hat without knowing it. This is also a sad thing for middle-aged people.

[3] When family, work and life were well taken care of, bad news came from my hometown

Many middle-aged people don't care about going back to their hometown to visit their parents often, or rarely go back to see their parents. It's not that they are not so filial, but they want to be better outside, go back to have a little face, and let themselves There was light on the faces of my parents, but when my career was booming, my life at home began to gradually improve. Just when I was preparing to be filial to my parents, bad news came from my hometown, and my parents suddenly This is the saddest thing for middle-aged people. Therefore, I think that no matter how busy you are outside, your career will never be as important as honoring and accompanying your parents. , My parents really don't want anything, they just want their children and their families to be safe and sound, and while their parents are still around, all middle-aged people should go back to their hometowns to see their parents.