The six taboos of middle-aged people, all of them are heartbroken
When middle-aged people are happy and sad, bitter and sweet, the following six taboos must be avoided in a complicated tasteless bottle. Do you think middle-aged people are tired?
[1] One should avoid doing things for yourself everywhere - middle-aged people tend to become stars who can do things in the crowd. They are the mature and stable people in everyone's eyes, so they often ask middle-aged people to do things for themselves. Many Middle-aged people have taken up a lot of things for themselves for that seemingly inescapable favor. Except for work, they are doing things for others, and they have no life at all.
[2] Erji takes his lover too seriously— many middle-aged people don’t have enough confidence in themselves, and are always worried that their lover will cheat and betray them. As a result, they spend time and mind monitoring every day, and they manage it well. It is too strict and the distance between the two people is farther and farther away. In the end, the heart is lost, the mutual trust is lost, and the people are lost.
[3] The three taboos of big things and small things are obviously for lovers to compare - especially some middle-aged women, the comparison is very important, let the lover do this, buy that, compare this, climb that, but the money is gone, people I am thinner, my heart is farther away, my love is lighter, my family is lost, and my lover's pressure is more severe.
[4] Siji is busy with his career and neglects his family relationship - every day is just one word "busy", busy at ordinary times and busy during festivals, as a result, relatives have become strangers, friendships have faded, husband and wife feelings have disappeared, and the relationship with children has disappeared. The communication is too busy to take care of, the career is not done well, and the family relationship is also lost, because people who can't balance, the career can't be done well.
[5] Wuji earns money and colds people's hearts - many middle-aged people are obsessed with money, and they say that they earn a lot of money, but because of money, the big guy's heart is cold, except for money, No one pays any attention to you. If you want to exchange money for it, it is impossible to exchange the original harmonious atmosphere. The amount of money is too much. It is enough to live on. What is the use of more money.
[6] Six taboos only care about moving forward and forget to take care of yourself - this is even more of a taboo for middle-aged people. They only care about staying up until the middle of the night every day, their career is over, but their body is gone, and everything is in vain. When you regret it, it's too late.
The pattern controls the direction of our development and determines the level of our future life. In a word, standing on the highest point of a mountain is nothing but a collection of small mountains. Taking a plane overlooking the ground from the clouds, the mountains have become bonsai placed on the table.