The five steps in life that cannot be missed, which step are you at?

There is no chance to look back in life, and there is no return ticket. Whether you succeed or fail, you must bite the bullet and move forward. There are five key nodes in life. These key nodes, if you go wrong, go later It is usually too late to make up, because each stage of life has the main task of each stage, perhaps many special cases make us excited, perhaps those outstanding special life will affect your footsteps, no matter which way of life you choose , don't forget our original intention, and we must not violate the law of life growth. This is the case in nature, and even more so in life:

[1] You are being naughty at the age of reading - if we have missed the age of reading, of course, the book has not been read well, we must consider how our next generation can receive a better education. Reading well is the most basic guarantee of life. Don't be fooled by the short-sighted fallacy that reading is useless and that reading is not as good as working. Maybe you will cite a lot of cases where you can succeed even after reading for a few days, but that Gone are the days of daring and success, and it will never return.

[2] You go to the age of accumulating a skill. There is nothing wrong with navigating the rivers and lakes, but the mistake is at the age when you should have accumulated a skill, but you are wandering around for your dreams, and it is also euphemistically called the world. After you have almost entered the society, it is the age when you have accumulated a long skill. This accumulation must be obtained by combining practice and time, and by sinking bit by bit through actions. After this age, your ability to accept is determined by you. Your flexibility restricts you from trying new skills. Therefore, this age group must be pragmatic, down-to-earth, and not vain.

[3] You should pursue your dreams at the age of falling in love - I don't know what's wrong with this society. On the one hand, a large number of leftover men and women continue to emerge, and on the other hand, families are fragmented. You should be at the age of falling in love. To pursue your dreams, you go to accumulate a skill, the result is either getting older, or you have no feeling for relationships, and more people fall into love at an age when they need to accumulate a skill, and when they come to understand, they have already hurt. In the depths, and the remaining men and women, in addition to their careers are empty, and emotional idiots, they have become the dishes of emotional liars.

[4] When you are not confused, you are going to talk about love and enter the field of time - the age of not confused should be a big fight and return to the origin of emotional career, but many people step in because they have more resources to talk about than they are younger. Over the years, the most dangerous thing in this age group is to fall into an emotional crisis without doing a proper job. What is not confused? It is to find the unchangeable law and stick to it. Many people regard not being confused as seeing through the world. Therefore, this step must not be wrong, because this mistake is irreversible.

[5] The age of harvest you have dreamed of in your feelings - after a person reaches middle age, it should be the beginning of the harvest, the career is successful, the benefits are harvested, the relationship is beautiful, and the family happiness is harvested. Due to the mistakes of the previous steps, Many people talk about their feelings at the age of harvest, and dream impossible dreams. At this time, it is too late to say anything. I want to read, but I can’t remember it. I want to learn a skill, but my hands are no longer listening. You have been called, and you want to talk about feelings, but no one has answered you, so this stage is called knowing the destiny.