Remember: When a person reaches middle age, these four things can't make do

It is a habit of many middle-aged people, especially middle-aged people who are over forty years old. If you are hungry, you can make do with some mats. If the things at home are broken, you can use them first. The children are a little small. What’s wrong, let’s make do with him. My lover makes a little mistake. For the sake of the children, let’s make do with it... After middle-aged people, how many people have suffered from this habit of make-believe. Remember, anything can make sense, but this Four things must not be made do, otherwise you will regret half your life:

1. The days when the appearance and the gods are separated can't be made together - the so-called days when the appearance and the gods are separated means that there is someone outside your house, arguing and scolding again and again, to no avail, he (she) just treats the home as a hotel , Occasionally come back to stay for one night, or even have to come back once because there is nowhere to go outside. Many people face such days, they always find a high-sounding reason for "for the sake of the children, make do with it", this is a This kind of deformed self-comfort mentality, and also fantasizes that he (she) will change his mind. This mentality is a kind of connivance, which can only make him (her) worse, so this kind of day must not be made do, and give yourself a reason to be strong again, The choice is over, I don’t know what’s wrong with people now, and people looking for people outside are justifiable. The editor thinks that it’s all a matter of habit . Women say that men don’t have a good thing, and there are no bad women. How can a man be bad? This is a one-on-one game; men say women are sloppy, and there are no bad men, how can women behave? Days like this can't be made any more, can't be used to the right and wrong men and women, and live a life for yourself, okay?

2. Sleeping three times a day can’t be enough – whether a middle- aged person sleeps well or not directly determines the speed of aging of the body. No matter how busy the work, no matter how stressful the pressure is, when a middle-aged person is middle-aged, he needs to get three good nights of sleep, and sleep after meals. Take a nap, get a good night’s sleep, get up early and enjoy a lazy nap. If you are in your 40s and still like when you were young, you don’t have to work overtime during the day and night, or play without restraint. Be careful that you deal with the hospital quickly. Now, without a good rest, there will be no good mental work and no good body, so I am very busy, turn off the lights and sleep when it is time to rest, and no matter how much entertainment during the day, I have to take a nap at noon, even for 20 minutes. , Before getting up at around six in the morning, no matter how anxious you are, you have to be lazy for ten minutes or eight minutes. Don’t think that you can’t turn this earth without you. Don’t deceive yourself. Everything belongs to others, only your body is yours Yes, you still have to be stupid, I have no choice.

3. Three meals a day can’t make do- eating is a major event. When people pass the age of forty, socializing and socializing will not be reduced, but they will be more socialized with promotion, career success, work needs, etc. However, no matter how much entertainment you have, you can’t drink too much wine. No matter how complicated the occasion is, you must drink more tea. You must learn to play on the scene and make a reasonable arrangement for your three meals a day. If you can go home to eat, go home to eat , after all, my wife knows my stomach best and knows my volume best. As we get older, don’t let the matter of eating increase the burden on our body. Having a good body is more important than how much money you have. At your age, you still believe that "feelings are deep, and you will be bored", "as long as you have feelings, let's go after a drink" and so on. You can only say, grow up quickly, young man. Based on being responsible for yourself, for your family, and for your body, you can push the bar if you can, and go home if you can't eat out. It's not our play.

4. The education and training of children cannot make do with it. For people in their forties, their children should be between the ages of ten and seventeen. Children in this period are the rebellious period. No matter how important your career is, in children In terms of education, it is absolutely impossible to make do, or ask professional teachers to cooperate with adults, or spend more time on your own to grow up with your children. You must let your children develop good habits that will last a lifetime during this period, such as procrastination, laziness, and poor communication. , The concept of time is not strong, and it is not good at making friends, etc. No matter how much effort you put in, no matter how difficult it is, you cannot let your child learn badly. Remember, at this stage, a delay is the life of the child, so the education of the child Harmony and training must not be reconciled, work can be avoided, career can be stopped, but the education of children must not be sloppy.

There are still many things that people can't make do when they reach middle age, but these few things are particularly important.