People still do these six things when they are middle-aged, they really don't understand

In everyone's minds, middle-aged people must be very knowledgeable about how to put things in and out. They are mature and sophisticated in life and work, but in the life of middle-aged people, there are still some people who don't understand the following six things. Let's take a look. When can you be confused:

[1] Competing with children - many middle-aged people are dissatisfied with their children, disregarding their children's nature and the actual situation of their children, they will often drive their children out of the house, and they will put their anger on their children if they are disobedient. The editor thinks that when it comes to dealing with children, middle-aged people should deeply reflect on themselves. If they are still fighting for their children at this age, it must be the problem of middle-aged people themselves, and children will become more and more uncomfortable. Listen to you, the generation gap between you will get worse and worse.

[2] Poisonous oath in anger - this is also something that middle-aged people avoid You were crushed to death by a car when you went out, etc. These angry vows can only prove your immaturity and guilt in your heart. If you are a person trusted by others, why should you do this? No amount of poisonous oaths is of any use.

[3] Worrying about things all day long - middle- aged people are warm-hearted and have some experience in the workplace and society. Some middle-aged people who have not grown up, whether in life or in the work unit, there are always people who can't be bothered. Wan's heart, originally his work was very leisurely, but he was busy all day for those eight-poles who also attacked him, making people gossip and not talking, and also messing up his popularity in the unit.

[4] I still feel that I am young and unformed - many middle-aged people, even if they are in their 40s, they are still young, old, and high-ranking people all day long, adults. There are endless jokes with children and so on, endless lies, and there is no formality all day long. This kind of person will only make others think that you can't do anything serious. You are still a child who is not grown up. Think about it, do leaders dare to give you heavy responsibilities? How do you have a good future in the workplace? How can other people be confidants with you in life?

[5] When others are agitated, they will be hooked on their bodies. This is also an important sign of immaturity for middle-aged people. When you see others do something, you have no foundation, and there is no need to do these things. Unable to bear the agitation of other people's three words, he immediately rolled up his pants and started to dry, and sometimes he didn't even care about his own body.

[6] Abandoning career and family affairs for the sake of unreliable promiscuity -- there are also some middle-aged people who are confused by some demons and fall into emotional traps, feeling that they have finally found true love, regardless of family opposition and career foundations , I don't want anything. When I regret it, I find that it's all empty, and it's all a scam of emotional games. The editor recommends that you resolutely resist the temptation in this case. The first one is a big thunder, and it will blow you up to nothing.