'When you reach middle age, you don't make five friends', it's a good saying
When a person reaches middle age, there are five kinds of friends who are determined not to make any more friends. Those who have made friends should be cut off when they are broken. Those who are ready to make friends should give up their thoughts, because making these five kinds of friends will condone others and hurt yourself, and will give birth to many. Somethin comes:
1. People with three defenses don’t pay – I often hear that “fire and theft prevent someone”, which is a summary of those who are extremely irresponsible, harm others and benefit themselves. In general, such people are somewhat related and have some rights. This kind of person with three defenses should not be friends, especially in an unfamiliar unit and environment. This kind of person is very easy to identify, known to everyone, and passed on to everyone, but his position is high and everyone is not willing to offend him. We have to stay away from people and guard against them.
2. People who never get drunk when they drink don’t pay – try to get others to drink more, every time you are drunk, he is fine, this kind of person can’t be paid, but all such people are very scheming, and they will take the lead when they encounter good things. When he encounters bad things, he will let you first. When drinking, he will try his best to make you drink more. He competes with you to drink, and when it is his turn to drink, he will use his best tricks to coax you, lie to you, tell you, how to deal with people who use their hearts and minds for a glass of wine.
3. People who are timid and afraid of trouble don't pay - he has something to do, you call the shots for him, if he kills you, but if you have something, he runs faster than a rabbit. This kind of person is very timid, nothing to do with him Looking for trouble, he is afraid of trouble, and he avoids trouble when encountering trouble, so when encountering such people, it is better not to pay, usually it is fine, when you encounter trouble, especially when you are in a hurry, he not only helps you If you are not busy, you will still have bad things. This kind of person, what is the use of him?
4. People who seek profit and avoid harm without bottom line will not pay – he runs faster than anyone else, if something happens, he runs faster than anyone else, the former one is quick to grab, the latter one is quick to hide, what trouble is there? , he pushes you forward, and then he runs away without a trace; if something good happens, he will not give you a bone or hair. When you need to protect yourself, he will definitely use you as a stepping stone. For them, as long as it is beneficial, there is no bottom line to speak of. Everything can be done. The one who betrayed you is this kind of person, the one who makes small reports on you is this kind of person, and the one who attributes your achievements to him is this kind of person. This kind of person who has no bottom line to seek profit and avoid harm should not be paid.
5. Tricky and mean people don't make friends - if you neglect him a little, he will be rude; if you don't speak to him, he will insult you; this kind of person is cunning and mean, cunning and treacherous, and harsh and unkind to others , you respect him one foot, he will give you one inch, he is very unhusband and can't compare his heart to heart. When you meet such people, you should put away your kindness, because they don't know gratitude, they only know how to ask harshly, such people , not available.