Young people are opportunistic and take these three shortcuts, only to taste more pain

Workplace case:

Recently, the author saw such a blind date case in the forum. After graduation, a 33-year-old female master student now earns an annual salary of 150,000 yuan, but when dating a programmer, she proposed that the man's annual salary should be at least 300,000 yuan. If the programmer cannot meet the conditions, then the two have nothing to talk about, and the programmer immediately responded: What do you think? Because the programmer's annual salary is less than 300,000, but he can achieve such a high income after a few years of hard work and struggle, but he feels that the female master directly concretizes happiness, then happiness will definitely not come, neither of the two There will be a better life.

The author is also very touched when I see this case. In fact, many young people are very envious of the lives of others, but they do not know that these happy lives are not achieved by their own efforts, rather than by opportunism, or by taking the following three shortcuts , this will only try to make more misery.

First, improve conditions when dating

Now I believe that many young people will find that there are many highly educated practitioners, and there is indeed a very big difference between them and people in real life. Because they are eager to live a life equal to that of their classmates or peers, they do not work hard, have no education, and have no school income, but they always hope that their subjects can have higher conditions. The more sloppy your life or work is, the less you will be reused by leaders in the company, and you always fantasize about living a better life, but you end up in a mess.

Second, like to pretend

In fact, after years of work and life, everyone will find that many young people always like to pretend, and their happiness or savings are all excuses and lies. After you get in touch with them, you will find that these young people have problems with their emotional management, and also have problems with their work ability, and there will be too many flaws and defects in their personality. They don't know what happiness is at all, and they always put money or material things on their lips, always thinking that these things are an important part of happiness.

Third, do not know how to cherish

Successful people in the workplace or in life, they all know how to pay to be rewarded, so behind the success, they will also have a lot of tears and sweat. But ordinary young people will also feel jealous when they see others getting better and better, because they always feel that they can imitate others and have a better life, but in the end they forget the starting point of happiness, which is actually learning to cherish those around them If your classmates or partners cannot understand contentment, they will only become more and more confused in society.