Don't be too honest, learn three golden rules of life, no longer let people think you are easy to bully

Whether it is in the work unit or in the society, if you are very honest, you will easily be regarded as someone who is easy to bully. Facts have also proved that the more honest you are, the more people like to bully you. In order to break this vicious circle, you must learn the following three golden rules for dealing with others, so that people no longer think that you are an honest and bullying person, and your situation will undergo a qualitative change.

【1】Doing what you don't want doesn't mean that others don't want it - don't accept bullying from others in your own way, but look at people and things in a reasonable and reasonable way.

Honest people’s thoughts are sometimes relatively simple. They feel that they think so, so they think that others think the same way. When others bully them, they are thinking, maybe they have to, maybe they will be fine next time, but The next time will be the same as now, so I advise all honest people not to accept bullying from others in your own way, but to reject them in a reasonable and reasonable way. Rejection will not only not offend others, but will also allow yourself to be respected by others. Everyone We must remember that people who represent positive energy have weight in their words. The key is to have a clear attitude.

【2】What you are not good at does not mean that others are bad - you can't treat others with your own level and vision, but you must balance your own mentality.

The other side of the disadvantage of honest people is that they don’t know enough about themselves, let alone know others. They always stay in their own small circle, they think that others are as good as themselves, and they can’t do it themselves. others can't do it, what you can accept, others can also accept, when others bully you, you accept it calmly, but when you ask others, others ruthlessly reject you, so I suggest Honest people, don't use your own mentality to look at the gains and losses of others, but use your own thoughts and mentality to balance people and things.

【3】What you can't do does not mean that others are incompetent - you can't judge others by your own experience, but you must base yourself on reality.

Honest people make the mistake of empiricism. It is also very common. If he thinks that he can't do this thing, he will be beaten to death. He thinks that all people can't do such a thing, so more and more honest people are very conceited. , the skills they think they have mastered can make themselves safe. In fact, their skills and methods are very simple and rough in the eyes of others. It is a matter of minutes for others to surpass them, so I suggest you be honest. People must be based on reality, not based on ideals.