These 3 sentences must be gritted and can't be said
Dante once said:
"Language as a tool is important to us,
As the horse is to the knight,
The best steed suits the best knight,
The best language is for the best mind."
It means that,
Language is like a tool for us, very important,
Well used words can enable us to fight the enemy bravely,
Become the most powerful knight on the battlefield,
But if used inappropriately,
may lead to repeated defeats,
finally killed by the enemy,
So language is very important to us,
Especially in the workplace, it is very important.
If used properly, our career path will be smooth sailing.
However, if used improperly, it may be hated by colleagues and leaders.
So today I will summarize with you,
3 words that must be hidden in the workplace,
Can't hold back these 3 sentences, sooner or later you will be stepped on by others!
These three sentences must be gritted, and you can't say them if you are suffocated, otherwise you will burn yourself!
- If you are jealous, you must hide it
In the workplace, a habit that most people have,
It's easy to hide when happy things happen,
Even if the leader suddenly sent a small red envelope,
Will happily share with those around me,
Sometimes you're just happy because of yourself,
So I want to find my colleagues to share this joy,
But the mentality of people in the workplace,
Most of them have no hatred for themselves,
It's good to hate others,
Only your parents will truly bless you,
No matter how good the relationship is, the friend sees you and you are doing well,
There will also be jealousy.
Although they will praise you superficially,
But in fact, I have some opinions about you in my heart.
When you encounter a bottleneck in your work one day or something goes wrong,
They will definitely come out to beat you or get in the way,
So if you are jealous, you must hide it.
When you come across something that makes you happy,
Just share it with your parents.
Never behave in front of your colleagues and leaders,
You're bound to get jealous.
These three sentences must be gritted, and you can't say them if you are suffocated, otherwise you will burn yourself!
- Keep your mouth shut when others are in trouble
Everyone encounters bad things in the workplace.
At this time, the human mind may be vulnerable.
If you don't like that colleague or leader,
You can stop comforting him, encouraging him,
But don't say anything if you get into trouble.
I remember that Xiao Li in our department did something wrong some time ago.
As a result, the leaders were not welcomed by the leaders for a period of time.
As a result, Xiao Zhang said to his colleagues everywhere:
"I've told Xiao Li that you can't do that.
As a result, he didn't listen, you see! It's a failure now, it's really asking for trouble."
Maybe Xiao Zhang's expression is also kind,
I hope Xiao Li can remember this lesson,
But for Xiao Li,
You say this when you're down,
will definitely have hatred for you,
Once this hatred takes root,
Maybe in the future, Xiao Zhang's suffering will be inevitable.
So when others are not going well, keep your mouth shut,
You will not offend people, you must know,
For some people, once offended, it may be a lifetime.
These three sentences must be gritted, and you can't say them if you are suffocated, otherwise you will burn yourself!
- Don't say excessive flattery
Many people try to build a good relationship with colleagues and leaders.
They will often say good things about them in front of their leaders and colleagues,
In fact, you think your leaders and colleagues will like you if you do this,
In fact, as a person who has been in the workplace for so long,
I have long been accustomed to seeing these flattering people,
Whether it is a leader or a colleague,
Basically, you can identify such a person at a glance,
So if you say these things in front of them excessively,
They may appear very happy on the surface,
But actually I hate you in my heart,
So, if we feel that a person is really good,
He should be praised at the right time.
In this way, it is often easier to enter the hearts of others,
Make people's impression of you improve a lot,
Therefore, in the workplace, if you are overly flattering, you should hide it.
Otherwise, your colleagues will hate you, and your leaders will hate you too!
These three sentences must be gritted, and you can't say them if you are suffocated, otherwise you will burn yourself!
In the workplace, language is the polish for our communication with others.
Expressing well can increase your relationship with colleagues and leaders,
Your career path will be smoother and smoother.
But if it is not expressed properly,
May leave some scars on others,
From now on, my impression of you will not be so good.
So be careful, we all know how to deal with people,
It is to see whether a person can speak or do things,
So the way of speaking is really important.
Especially these three sentences, you must hide them,
I can't hide my words to offend people,
You really can only blame yourself.