Colleagues have a dinner together, pay the bill impulsively, and when I get home, I see the WeChat message, and I feel stunned all of a sudden
Interpersonal relationships in the workplace have always been very important, not only the relationship with leaders, but also the relationship with colleagues. Many people are not good at interpersonal relationships in the workplace, and often offend the people around them, especially when they encounter and matters of interest.
Xiaoxin is a newcomer who has just entered the workplace. He has not been in the new company for a long time, and he does not know how to get along with colleagues. In order to improve the relationship with colleagues, he leaves early every day and returns late every day. While working hard, he is often very diligent to please colleagues.
After spending a lot of time together, one day she was invited by a colleague to join a WeChat group without a leader. She thought she had a good relationship with her colleagues and had integrated into everyone.
One day before get off work, a colleague said in the group that everyone had a dinner together, Xiaoxin was very happy, and went there happily. After drinking and eating, everyone was playing with their mobile phones. No one said anything about the checkout. When Xiaoxin got hot, he went to checkout impulsively. He thought it would be okay for everyone to eat together, but when he got home, he was dumbfounded when he saw the news. .
A colleague posted a message in the group, saying, "Xiaoxin wasted money today. If you need any help in the future, feel free to mention it, and I will try my best to help." After that, many colleagues in the group seconded the opinion. Xiaoxin was helpless and thin-skinned, so he had no choice but to I swallowed my anger and ate this dumb loss.
It is also a newcomer Zhang Li who has just joined the company, but her performance is completely different. She is never flattering, always independent, serious and hard working.
The relationship with colleagues only stays at work, and there are few contacts in life. Those old fritters in the workplace have no chance at all to take advantage. Workplace routines are deep, if you don’t understand these three points, you will suffer a big loss sooner or later.
Colleagues have a dinner together, pay the bill impulsively, and when I get home, I see the WeChat message, and I feel stunned all of a sudden
- The heart of preventing others is indispensable, keep an eye on everything
The workplace is like a battlefield. In addition to cooperation, there are conflicts of interest and competition among colleagues. In the process of getting along with colleagues, whether it is talking or doing things, it is best to think twice before acting, not to be impulsive, and not to speak bluntly. Your behavior is likely to infringe on the interests of others or lose your own interests. In the workplace, you must control your words and deeds to avoid causing trouble for yourself.
- Help among colleagues, only within the scope of ability
In the workplace, it is normal for colleagues to help each other. Everyone needs help, but the help between colleagues is limited to their own ability and reasonable requirements.
If a colleague asks you for help, beyond your ability, if you handle things well, your colleague thinks you should do it, but if you don't handle it well, you will be complained and blamed by the other party.
Some people will have unreasonable demands, and even sacrifice your interests. Unreasonable demands like this should be rejected decisively, so as not to affect their work or harm their own interests.
To help colleagues, help is a relationship, not helping is a duty, and you must master your own initiative.
Colleagues have a dinner together, pay the bill impulsively, and when I get home, I see the WeChat message, and I feel stunned all of a sudden
- Ensure that your own interests are complete and not infringed
In the workplace, it is easy to have disputes of interests with colleagues. When encountering such a situation, many people will feel embarrassed and directly humbly give it to the other party. Your humility will only make the other party feel that you are weak, that you are too far ahead, and that you will harm the other party. your interests.
Therefore, in the workplace, when it comes to issues of interests, one must say one and two others, so as to ensure that one's own interests are not infringed.
When two people come and go, friendship is friendship, and interests are interests. Don't confuse the two, so as to avoid affecting the relationship between the two because of interests.
write at the end
In the workplace, if you don’t want to suffer and be taken advantage of by old fried dough sticks, no matter what you do, you must be careful about everything to avoid big losses.