No matter how generous, don’t follow the etiquette of these three kinds of people, stop loss in time
Humans are gregarious creatures, and social contact with others is indispensable both in life and in the workplace.
Sometimes, we can roughly see a person's character, morality and cultivation through some very small things.
There are many ways in which this can be manifested, and today we are going to talk about etiquette.
Speaking of courtesy, everyone must be familiar with it. Among them are relatives, friends, colleagues and some leaders. We all need to send favors to maintain our relationship with each other, and gifts are also an economic expense.
No matter how generous, don’t follow the etiquette of these three kinds of people, stop loss in time
Today, let's talk about which three kinds of people's etiquette should not be followed. If you knew earlier, you should stop your losses.
- People who are rarely contacted
I don't know if you have encountered such a situation. It's that an old classmate who hasn't been in touch for many years suddenly sends you a message one day, saying that your son is going to be a full moon, and asks you to go to the ceremony or something.
Such a person doesn't communicate with you very often, he didn't call you when he got married, you don't even know when his wedding was held, but when his son was full moon, he suddenly sent you a message asking you to come to the full moon banquet , to put it bluntly, is to let you pay as you go.
For this kind of person, I don't think it is necessary at all. Since we rarely contact each other, it means that we are not in the same circle at all, and there is no need to waste money on such people.
No matter how generous, don’t follow the etiquette of these three kinds of people, stop loss in time
Besides, they don't often contact you after you bow, and sometimes they don't even say hello when they meet. If he asks you to bow next time, you can bluntly say no. Do not follow some gifts.
- Poor character and low quality
You have given him a gift for this kind of person, and you are ready to go to the table for dinner. You want to chat casually about your relationship or something. This in itself is a very happy atmosphere, but when this kind of person hosts a banquet, it is always uncomfortable.
They are often self-centered. During the banquet, if a little bit disagrees with him, he feels uncomfortable, so he has to say it, and he loses his temper at random during the banquet, which makes everyone feel uncomfortable when they sit down to eat. there is none left.
No matter how generous, don’t follow the etiquette of these three kinds of people, stop loss in time
So, if you are invited to attend the banquet hosted by this type of person, it is better not to go.
- I hate you for being polite
This kind of person is very disgusting. He doesn't have much interaction with you on weekdays. At most, it's just a few encounters. But that's it, this kind of person still likes to call more people to attend the banquet held to save face.
They even hold a banquet every three or five places, one day for the eldest son, one full moon feast for the younger son the day after, a few years anniversary of their engagement this weekend, and a few years anniversary of their marriage next weekend. Can do it several times over the years.
And when you go to the ceremony, if you are less casual, you will say that you are stingy, that you don't understand the world, and that you don't treat him as a friend.
No matter how generous, don’t follow the etiquette of these three kinds of people, stop loss in time
In fact, the courtesy is originally a form, but this kind of person has already regarded it as greed.
You clearly belong to the category of acquaintances, not even ordinary friends, but you despise you for being polite and say you don't treat him as a friend. What kind of courtesy do you give to such a person? Why are you going to the banquet held by him?
If you encounter such a person who invites you, simply refuse it. Anyway, you don't talk much on weekdays. The so-called relationship is good, but he uses this as an excuse to dislike you for giving less money.
No matter how generous, don’t follow the etiquette of these three kinds of people, stop loss in time
So don't be too obsessed with your own face problem, don't go if you shouldn't go, stop loss in time.
Bottom line: We are not the Mona Lisa in portraits and don't have to keep smiling to everyone. If you want to keep your eyes open in social interaction, some people are worth interacting with while others are destined to not be in the same circle as us.
Since they are not in the same circle, there is no need to force them to merge together!
Speaking of which, have you ever given these three types of people a gift? You are welcome to leave a message below the comment area!