Knowing people in the wine bureau: If you meet such a person at the wine table, stay away as soon as possible without losing money
Whether it is in the workplace or in life, I believe that everyone can’t avoid all kinds of entertainment, such as company dinners, department banquets, and customer invitations.
Some people don't like socializing very much, and they don't like places with many people, while some people are very interested in socializing, hoping to get to know more people through socializing to improve the circle around them.
Whether you hate socializing or like socializing, everyone has their own choices.
But we all know a sentence, wine is a character, and a person's literacy after being drunk can judge his character .
And if you have these types of friends around you, stay away or keep your distance as soon as possible.
Because these types of people are not worthy of deep friendship, otherwise you will only suffer in the end.
- When you drink, call you brothers and sisters
There is such a type of people, they will drink every time they drink, and when they are happy, they like to call others brothers and sisters.
I don't know how good their relationship is!
But in fact it is "drinking brother, who are you sober?"
The so-called friendship of such people is only at a short wine table. Who is it that they meet you again after leaving the wine table?
At most, the other party treats you as someone they know, not even an ordinary friend.
So, if you meet those who call you brothers at the wine table, don't believe that they think you are a friend.
Others just say it casually, just listen, don't take it seriously.
- Instead of drinking, persuade others
There was a male colleague in the company I used to work for. When it was time to drink and socialize, everyone drank a little to make fun of it. He seldom drank it, and he only drank with the leader when he wanted to.
For the toasts of other ordinary colleagues, he will only find various reasons to shirk.
But what's even more hateful is that he doesn't drink much at the wine table, but instead persuades others to persuade him.
Regardless of gender, he tried every means to persuade others to drink more and drink more, and when he saw others drank too much, vomited and got drunk, he laughed there.
Don't even forget to take out a mobile phone to take pictures and record videos and send them to the company group.
On the second day, he was preaching everywhere that he was drinking like this last night, making others very uncomfortable.
A true friend will think about others at the dinner table, consider other people's feelings, and will not persuade others to drink.
And the kind of people who insist on persuading others to drink instead of drinking themselves are actually looking at it with the purpose of making fun of others for their drunken gaffe.
The more humiliating others, the happier and happier he will be. This kind of person builds his own happiness on the humiliation of others.
It also reflects the dark side of such a person's heart from the side. Such a person can't have deep friendship, and it is best to avoid contact without contact.
- Be more active than anyone else when eating, and run faster than anyone else when paying the bill
Treating guests to dinner is also a way to manage relationships.
As friends, even if you don't have the AA system, everyone will always consciously abide by a tacit agreement.
Today you invite me to dinner, and later I invite you to sing. After a long time, everyone spends about the same.
There is another type of people, as long as everyone has an appointment to eat together, they will definitely be there immediately, but when it comes to paying the bill, they will find various excuses to shirk.
What suddenly remembered that he had to go back to deal with urgent matters, and even pretended to answer a phone call and left immediately after using this as an excuse.
This kind of people only think about how to eat and drink other people's food all day long, but they are like an iron rooster.
There is even a class of people who are more abominable than the above.
When they heard that someone wanted to treat a guest to dinner, they would quarrel about which restaurant to go to, what dishes are expensive, and what wines are expensive, and when it was his turn to treat, they would be extremely stingy.
What kind of roadside stalls and small broken restaurants, save as much as you can. If you encounter such a person, you should stay away immediately. After all, everyone is not a fool, and no one likes to be eaten and drunk for a long time.
Whether it is in life or in the workplace, ordinary people go to dinner and dinner is simply to have a meal and chat for a day to get to know each other.
And those rich and powerful can often judge a person's quality from the wine table.
For example, the person's wine, personal qualities, character, and whether he is generous or stingy, whether he can have deep friendship, whether he can have business cooperation, etc.
It can be said that the role of the dinner party is still very large.
Especially for some people in the workplace, those with high emotional intelligence can skillfully use dinner skills to improve their ability to entertain, optimize the circles, contacts and resources around them, so that they can benefit from it.
But not everyone is born to be a master of communication, and social entertainment also requires you to learn like a professional course in a university.
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