In the workplace, remember not to do these 4 things, your colleagues will never laugh at you for being stupid or chatting
Being able to talk is sometimes more pleasing than being able to do things.
Because if you do a lot of things to help the other person, but like to say harsh words, the other person may feel uncomfortable and not remember everything you did for him at all.
Talking is always heartwarming.
This is also why in a relationship, a boy who can talk is always more popular with girls than a boy who is dull and works silently.
In the workplace, remember not to do these 4 things, your colleagues will never laugh at you for being stupid or chatting
In the workplace, we have to learn to speak, and win good popularity and good opportunities for ourselves.
In the company, after a few months of observation, I found that people who can chat never do these 4 things:
- Self-centred
People who really know how to chat are never self-centered and only want to be happy.
I remember when I first started playing badminton with my friends, I always wanted to win, thinking it would show how good I was.
So I either hit the ball very far, or very close, or very far, and my friends often couldn't catch the ball to pick it up.
But slowly, they didn't want to play with me anymore, saying that I didn't play well.
I just realized that I play with my friends for fun, not a game.
All I have to do is let my friends catch the ball, and we go back and forth, and it's fun to play.
The same is true of speech, it only makes sense for you to say one to me.
I can't always be the only one talking, and I can't always talk about topics that interest me.
In the workplace, remember not to do these 4 things, your colleagues will never laugh at you for being stupid or chatting
- Interrupting others
Everyone wants to be respected by others.
If you are talking in good spirits, you will lose a part of your interest if you are interrupted by others, and you will feel uncomfortable when the other party does not take you seriously.
He won't chat with people who interrupt him in the future.
This may also be partially reflected in the work. For example, the other party thinks that you are selfish and lacks eyesight, and may not like to cooperate with you.
In the workplace, remember not to do these 4 things, your colleagues will never laugh at you for being stupid or chatting
- Change the subject at an untimely time
Everyone has a little secret, something they don't want to mention to anyone.
If you or another colleague accidentally brings up a topic and the other party is stunned for a moment, then maybe that's what he doesn't want to talk about.
You can change the words immediately, I think the other party will be very grateful to you.
Recently, there is a new Korean drama. The heroine is a beauty who has undergone plastic surgery. The second girl deliberately asked her in front of everyone, "You shouldn't have had plastic surgery."
The heroine was instantly embarrassed and did not speak, but the second girl was still waiting for her to answer.
I guess that's not a good way to build friendships.
In the workplace, remember not to do these 4 things, your colleagues will never laugh at you for being stupid or chatting
- Easy to get angry and change face
Everyone has their own bottom line and principles.
Getting angry and fiery when touched by others is a great way to establish boundaries.
But if you are often angry in ordinary chats, your colleagues will be less and less afraid to chat with you, because not knowing that sentence will annoy you.
In the workplace, remember not to do these 4 things, your colleagues will never laugh at you for being stupid or chatting
To sum up, in the workplace, remember not to do the above four things, and colleagues will no longer laugh at you for being stupid or chatting.
What do you think you can't do while chatting with colleagues? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area.