No matter how good the relationship between the three people is, don't lend them money, otherwise it will make your relationship worse.

I believe that no matter in the workplace, social work, or in life, you do not want to see your friends around you have difficulties, so when colleagues and leaders ask you to borrow money, ordinary employees will take the initiative to lend them money, but When the money was lent to them, they found that the people who borrowed the money seemed to have disappeared. Even after a few years, they did not return the money, and the relationship with them became worse and worse.

Many workplace friends know the world, but many colleagues and leaders have taught them a vivid lesson. In order to gain a firm foothold in the workplace, they have a good relationship with their colleagues and leaders, and they take the initiative to help them, but in the end they find that they regret it. Unreachable.

So if you have the following three types of people to borrow money from you, even if you have a good relationship with them, don't lend money to them easily, because it is very likely that your relationship will get worse and worse.

First, people who always borrow money and never pay it back

For such people, don't lend money to them, because they have lost their credibility and are not honest. If you frequently lend money to them in the company, it means they owe money. You have a lot of favors. At that time, you will borrow more and more money, and they will not pay attention to you if you ask them to pay back the money.

For example, when the colleague who has the best relationship with you in the company always offends all the employees in the company because he keeps borrowing money and does not pay it back, everyone isolates the colleague, but you have a good relationship with him and do not want to be with him. If he cuts off the relationship, then colleagues will ask you to borrow money again and again.

Second, the stranger

In the process of getting along with others, some workplace friends are very kind. Even if they have only met a stranger once or twice, they have become wine and meat friends at the wine table. In fact, they feel that no matter the occasion, they can support each other. Help, this is human nature, but after some strangers ask you to borrow money, and if the amount is relatively large, they disappear without a trace after borrowing money. If you are involved with these strangers If you have anything to do with it, then it is really a time bomb for you and will bring you special trouble.

Third, people with big hands

Don't lend money to big-handed people, because they don't want to give it back to you after they've spent the money. These people are generally very generous, because they talk about making friends in society, when they are dealing with others, but when they invite guests to dinner, they spend all their money, it seems that They have a lot of friends around them, but they don't have a good relationship with them, and everyone just came to eat his dinner.

When you lend money to these people who brought it out, you have to bear the consequences of borrowing money. He will keep borrowing money from you until there is a conflict between you and you start complaining about each other.