Most people ignore these three wine table rules. If you understand them, you can save 10 years of struggle.

Nowadays, I believe that many workplace friends have worked in the workplace for many years. Everyone feels that they are tired of intrigue between colleagues in the workplace. Some workplace friends think that they are basically trying to please their leaders or maintain a good relationship with colleagues. For them It's like doing useless work. Many workplace friends will be upset, very confused, and don't know how to develop in the workplace.

In fact, everyone will participate in some entertainment and dinner parties in the workplace. At the wine table, many employees often offend the leader because of some small details, which makes the leader disgusted. So how to get the favor of the leader faster at the wine table? In fact, most of the people will ignore these three rules at the wine table. If you can figure it out, you may be able to save 10 years of struggle.

First, talk to people and talk to ghosts

Sometimes the reason why many elites in the workplace have high emotional intelligence is because they can talk to people and talk to ghosts. If they can develop the habit of talking like this, they can actually be appreciated by leaders or customers at the wine table. Because everyone thinks that you are very knowledgeable and know the rules. At the wine table, you know how to respect leaders and customers, and you will make everyone feel very comfortable when you speak. Then you can naturally be reused by the leader at the wine table. When there is a work arrangement in the future, the leader will think of you for the first time.

Second, observe the words

You will definitely meet some strangers at the wine table, and you should never think that these strangers communicate well, because you are not familiar with them, and they have a grudge against you. If you are suddenly very friendly to them, it will make you They feel that they need to be more wary of you. They don't know what you will do to them, but it will make your relationship more and more tense. So when drinking with strangers at the wine table, you must learn to watch your words. If it is not worth communicating or it is not suitable for communicating, then don't casually start some more sensitive topics with the other party.

Third, the rules of drinking

When drinking at the wine table, everyone should also pay attention not to drink for the sake of drinking. In fact, outside of drinking, everyone gathers to discuss each other's work and various topics. If you always drink blindly, everyone If you don’t have the consciousness to drink, then it’s still very easy to get into trouble, especially when drinking with the leader, don’t try to persuade the drink maliciously, maybe the leader’s alcohol intake is not as high as you, and if you always persuade the drink maliciously, then only Make the leader more disgusted with you.