Chatting with strangers at the wine table, don't say these three words with low emotional intelligence, it is easy to offend others

Nowadays, many workplace friends in the workplace hope to gain recognition from leaders or others through their work performance, so that they can be promoted and raised in the company, and can also have more contacts in the society, but everyone When participating in some dinner parties, some employees did not know how to speak and could not control their mouths, which led to trusting with some strangers, and finally offended others, which was really worth the loss.

Therefore, when drinking and chatting with strangers, don't blurt out the following three low emotional intelligence words, otherwise you will easily offend others.

First, complain about family members

Many workplace friends will mention their family members when they are drinking with strangers or friends, and sometimes their family members do some trivial things, but it will become a topic of discussion for them and everyone, they will complain to everyone about their family members, in fact Not everyone likes to hear about your mother-in-law, let alone hear you complain about others, because they think that a person with more negative energy like you is not worthy of deep friendship.

Second, arguing with each other

When drinking at the wine table, many workplace friends like to act on their will. They are very impulsive. They forget the saying that impulsiveness is the devil at such a critical moment. In fact, there are some differences and conflicts at the wine table. There are problems in solving problems. The most important thing is that there are some workplace friends who are often very irrational and cannot control their emotions, which leads to quarrels with each other, and no one is willing to compromise.

Third, malicious persuasion

Many friends in the workplace want to be appreciated by others at unfamiliar or important dinner parties, so everyone will take the initiative to persuade them to drink, and find those high-level leaders or strangers to toast, but if you always persuade you to drink maliciously, it is still very difficult. It is easy to offend the other party, the other party is already drunk or refuses to be toasted by you, and you repeatedly ask the other party to persuade him to drink, then it can only show that you have no eyesight.