Work? family? Modern women no longer have to choose between
"My wife's annual salary is one million, are you willing to be a full-time father?"
A few days ago, the debate topic of a variety show successfully rushed to the hot search list on the Internet platform, the topic index continued to rise, and women's issues once again "dominated the screen".
About how to make a balance and choice between work and family, once again "poking" the hearts of women in the majority of society.
Work? family? Modern women no longer have to choose between
Don't want to miss every minute and every second of your baby's growth
"The annual salary of a wife is one million", which is a high affirmation of the social value of women. In the current stage of Chinese society, more and more educated women who have received higher education are entering the workplace.
Through hard work and struggle, many women can not only gain a firm foothold in the fierce workplace competition and win recognition, but even take charge of themselves and gain higher salaries and social status. An annual salary of millions is no longer a dream. This is the rights and opportunities given to women by society from the perspective of equality between men and women in modern society.
However, when professional recognition "meeted" with traditional cognition, it was despised and looked down upon by some groups of society.
Just imagine, if the title is changed to "My husband earns a million dollars a year, are you willing to be a full mother?" Maybe the social response will be much calmer, but when the situation reverses to a situation where women are strong and men are weak, and family status is reversed due to changes in economic status, modern Can a man "mother and father" and stay at home full-time?
It seems that "Dad" is making a choice, but the focus of the problem is still on "Mom".
Work? family? Modern women no longer have to choose between
With choices, there are ties
Many times we think that if women devote most of their energy to work, they will not be able to take care of the family. The higher the position of women, the heavier the task, so they will be greatly reduced in the fulfillment of family responsibilities as mothers and wives.
In a traditional value system in which women should take the family as their lifelong goal, the rise of women's social status is bound to cause "turbulence" in family life. Under the influence of the traditional family division of labor concept of "male masters outside, female masters inside", the family's excessive and unreasonable dependence on women has become a real dilemma faced by modern women in career planning.
Work? family? Modern women no longer have to choose between
A successful career makes me confident, beautiful and shining
It has to be said that with the rapid development of society, the cost of family operation continues to increase. There are only a few families who have the conditions to be full-time mothers. Most families need women to go to work. This is a manifestation of women's right to choose their own jobs, and it is also a family. real life needs.
When work and family cannot be either one or the other, and must have both, then the "occupation" of family life by working hours requires all family members to face and undertake together, and the "spear" should not be pointed simply and rudely Women, this is also a concrete manifestation of disrespect for women in the traditional concept of male superiority over women.
Work? family? Modern women no longer have to choose between
All efforts are for our little family
At the same time, the public should not look at men's home issues with tinted glasses. We can neither overestimate the dependence of women on the family, nor underestimate the contribution of men to the family, especially not to stigmatize and dwarf the image of full-time men.
In real life, if at a certain stage women have achieved greater success in their careers than men, obtained better development opportunities, and can create more value for their families and society, then men should start from reality and get rid of them The old concept of "macho" and the burden of feudalism, bravely bear the burden of the family.
Work? family? Modern women no longer have to choose between
I believe that a father's love is as selfless and fearless as a mother's love.
Work and family are equally important to the public, and each family member should make a rational division of labor according to their own family circumstances.
A free, tolerant and open family environment is conducive to the awakening of women's awareness of independence and the advancement of gender equality. For men, they do not have to bear the financial burden of the family alone.
Work? family? Modern women no longer have to choose between
Wind and rain, with you
The stable and long-term operation of society and family does not depend on those old old customs and feudalism, but on new thinking and new ideas that change with the trend and dare to innovate.