When colleagues ask for help for these three things, the more they know how to refuse, the better the interpersonal relationship in the company
> > Ma Shan is ridden by others, and Ren Shan is bullied by others. If he knows how to reject these three things, he will not be bullied. >
Young people working hard in the workplace, in order to maintain the relationship between colleagues, in the face of colleagues' requests for help, generally will not refuse others' help; over time, refusal has become a word that is difficult to say, and those colleagues who are used to asking for help, Doing things in the company is also getting more and more excessive; Ma Shan is ridden by others, good people are bullied, and he is vividly displayed in the workplace. The more he does not know how to reject others, the more serious he is bullied in the company; Among those colleagues who are called by others at will, if they do not know how to reject others for a long time, they will gradually leave the impression of being bullied by others, and such colleagues will become representatives of being bullied; everyone can only learn to reject others reasonably, To be respected by others in the company.
The new colleagues in the company will meet, although their work ability is good, but the old colleagues in the company like to ask for help; and the things that colleagues ask for help are also things that the other party can't do by themselves; the reason why colleagues like Asking for help and meeting instead of bothering others is because the meeting is easier to talk to in the company and is embarrassed to refuse others. Later, there were several times when the meeting had not finished his work, but colleagues came over to ask the meeting to help. , as a result, the colleague's work is completed and she is off work normally; but Hui Hui is still working overtime in the company in order to complete her own work; it may be because of Hui Hui's personality, or it may be because she does not want to offend people, but she does not How long will I be unable to bear this kind of working environment and choose to leave.
Helping each other between colleagues can promote the relationship between everyone. If you don’t know how to reject others like Huihui, then working in the company is to suffer for face; in the workplace, everyone can’t think too much about everything , Everyone is an adult. Those old fritters who have been in the workplace for many years are selfish. No matter how much you help others, they will not remember your goodness. After all, most people like to bully people who are easy to talk. Colleagues; everyone must understand that in the workplace, you must advance and retreat in moderation. You cannot help others foolishly all day long. Only by mastering the skills of rejection can you gain the respect of others; the following editor will share with you, young people walking in the workplace To learn the three things to refuse, friends who want to know, quickly follow the editor to take a look!
- Don't help your colleagues with borrowing money ==================================================
Borrowing money between colleagues is a very sensitive thing in the workplace. I believe that everyone has encountered such a thing more or less. Maybe some people are embarrassed to refuse when they encounter this kind of thing. After all, good colleagues speak up. , indicating that the other party has encountered a problem; if something happens to a colleague's family and you are anxious to use the money, you can borrow it, and it is best not to borrow it for other purposes; if your colleague wants to borrow money to buy a house, buy a car, or speculate in stocks, etc. The reason for borrowing money is obviously to bully honest people. Everyone's salary is similar, and the chance of being able to pay it back is very small. Therefore, everyone must refuse decisively to avoid similar problems. It happened again.
- Don't let your help be taken for granted by the other party ==============================================================
Since school, everyone has been told by teachers to be good students who are willing to help others, but in the workplace, they cannot help others indiscriminately; otherwise, your help will become particularly cheap, and if colleagues take your help for granted , then the other party will definitely not thank you for your help. Once you stop helping others, those who are used to being helped by you will think that your behavior is indebted to them, and will even speak ill of you everywhere in the company. Explain that not everything in the workplace can be helpful. Only by decisively rejecting unreasonable demands can you win the respect of the other party.
- Don't use your own post to help your colleagues do things ============================================================
I believe that everyone has also encountered such a thing. Colleagues come over and ask you to take advantage of your position to help the other party to do something that violates the rules. If you help this kind of thing, it will definitely violate the company's system; maybe this kind of help will be beneficial to the company. The company's performance will not have any impact, but once this situation is known to the company, it will definitely think that you both benefited from each other. There is no benefit to helping others. If the incident happens, you will be implicated; if this kind of thing is not The company knows that you will also be caught by your colleagues, which will make your future work more troublesome.