The sand that cannot be held, lift it as soon as possible
Recently, I have been busy on a business trip for a while, and some things happened around me. A friend broke up with his girlfriend. In fact, this incident seems to us to be a very small thing and a very common thing, but you guys What I don't know is how many things I said to him to let him let go. I don't really like to get involved in other people's feelings, but I just can't stand it. Why should I persuade them to break up? Please listen to me in detail.
The sand that cannot be held, lift it as soon as possible
What about this friend of mine! Life is very simple Every day is to go to work, get off work and then go home to cook, waiting for her girlfriend to come back for dinner, he is not interested in games at all, he thinks his girlfriend is everything to him, he has to love her wholeheartedly ;Her girlfriend works in a company's sales business and lives a nine-to-five life every day. After get off work, the first thing she thinks about is not whether her boyfriend has eaten or not, but that she and her colleagues go out to eat first, and then get together Go clubbing! In the end, she got drunk and went home late, and then the woman would say that she was busy so late because of the entertainment. She did this entirely for the sake of their future. When he first told me about this, I actually believed it. I felt that such girls are really rare, but when I saw her holding another man's arm in a shopping mall, I realized that it was I misunderstood this person, this person is too scheming. For honest people like my friend, they are not suitable to be together at all. It can be said that you sold you and you helped her count the money! Both of them! One likes quiet, one likes noise, one likes family, one likes nightlife, one likes to make money, and one likes to spend money desperately, which is enough to show that they are not suitable for being together, because they are different in many places and they are not the same people at all, so There must be no result.
The sand that cannot be held, lift it as soon as possible
Another point is that their thoughts are completely different. My friend is very satisfied with the status quo and doesn't want to fight anymore. He feels that the current life is what he wants, but her girlfriend is very high-spirited and always wants to make a lot of money. Gao Sheng sits in a higher position. I personally think ah! In fact, this woman has already passed my friend, but she has not found an absolutely suitable candidate. To put it bluntly, she is raising a spare tire. If one day she finds it, she will kick him away without hesitation. Because there is no such thing as emotion in her world, she only thinks value is the most important, because all she has been thinking about is to climb up, she looks down on men who are not enterprising, and this is also inappropriate for them place.
The sand that cannot be held, lift it as soon as possible
Let this woman go as soon as possible! Otherwise, you will sink deeper and deeper until you can't extricate yourself. In the end, you are the one who hurts. Even if you love each other again, you can't give people the life they want, and you can't control them. Do you think she is still suitable for you! The sooner you let go, the better it is for you.
The sand that cannot be held, lift it as soon as possible
I don't know what's wrong with people now. I love you so much and take care of you in every possible way, but in the end they all lose to someone who knows how to do routines. There are many girls who think that boys are good to them and that's what they should. On the contrary, encountering a person who knows how to treat her badly, but arouses her curiosity, and may wonder why he is not good to me, why doesn't he care about me? Then girls suddenly become active pursuit of boys, this may be what we often say that men are not bad and women do not love!