Worrying about being bullied by villains all day

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"Don't be afraid of opponents like gods, but afraid of teammates like pigs", I believe everyone has heard this sentence; the same is true in the workplace, not afraid of how strong the competing company is, but afraid of the existence of villains in your own company; Existence not only does not value the interests of the team, but also likes to bully colleagues around him, especially to take advantage of honest people; when dealing with such villains in the company, honest people cannot be bullied, but learn some skills to deal with villains, only Taking the initiative to deal with villains can avoid being bullied in the future; the reason why some colleagues are called villains is that they have the characteristics of being bullied and afraid of toughness. As long as they are not afraid of villains, they will not easily get ahead with the people around them. .

Gao Feng, a friend who has just returned to work, encountered very strange things when he went to work; several new colleagues in the company who have just recruited always turn to Gao Feng when they encounter difficulties. The reason is that Gao Feng is approachable and willing to help others; In the past week, Gao Feng has also tried his best to help his new colleagues. It may be that Gao Feng's enthusiasm almost made him lose his job; it turned out that the new colleagues made mistakes in the work, and several people had to work together to put the responsibility on Gao Feng, regardless of the difference. The indiscriminate leaders also severely criticized Gao Feng. Later, when reporting on the work, the leaders found that the new colleagues did not understand the work at all, and only then did they understand that Gao Feng was framed by others, so the new colleagues were arrested before they turned regular. fired.

When there are villains around you, it’s best to face them directly, don’t be afraid of the other party, let alone avoid them, otherwise these weaknesses will make it difficult for you to move, and only by properly competing with them can you get better and better in the workplace. ;Only when you are strong, the villain dare not ask you for trouble; in the career of the workplace, everyone will encounter villains, good people, bad people, and noble people, learn to distinguish these colleagues carefully, and always be cautious when dealing with villains ;The following editor will share with you three common tricks of smart people and villains to help you no longer be bullied by villains. Friends who want to learn, quickly follow the editor to see it!

First, keep a distance from the villain

When many workplace friends deal with villains, the first thing that comes to mind is to keep a distance or stay away. As long as it involves their own interests, they will avoid being involved with villains; those villains in the workplace generally yearn for petty profits. If you can't keep a distance from the villain, you will have various inexplicable relationships with the villain, and you may even unknowingly take the blame for the villain. What I like to do is to use improper means, which also shows that you should not talk about interests with villains. Only by hiding and staying away from the villains around you can you protect your own interests and rights.

  1. Let the villains dare not bully themselves =============================================

In addition to staying away from the villain as much as possible in the workplace, many friends will choose to improve their abilities and make the villain feel afraid; when the honest person suddenly becomes stronger, the villain will feel that the honest person is closing the distance with him , even surpassing yourself in some things, so you will have a psychology of envy and jealousy, so that the villain does not dare to start easily; whether it is the ability in work or the skills in life, as long as you let yourself stand in a higher position , the villain can only look up to the point; the villain who is used to bullying the soft and afraid of the tough can only smile when facing the honest person who has become stronger.

  1. Take the initiative to attack the villain ============================================

There may be some smart villains who are immune to the above two methods. Such villains are generally unethical when dealing with colleagues, and will blurt out all kinds of unpleasant words; in the face of such villains, they can only be relentless and respond accordingly. The way to attack the villain is not to find trouble for the villain, but a kind of wisdom to protect oneself; some people may think that doing things modestly and politely is a gentleman, but this kind of gentleman's behavior cannot deal with villains, only to the villains. People attack decisively and do not forbear the behavior of the villain, so as to prevent the villain from continuing to intensify; only if the villain cannot take advantage of himself, the villain will choose to leave you at the first time.

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