There is an old saying in China, "Those who are close to Zhu are red, those who are close to Mo are black."

Especially in the workplace, if you are surrounded by excellent people, you will be close to them; on the contrary, if you are surrounded by unreliable people, you may become like them over time.

We can keep ourselves clean and keep ourselves from becoming annoying people, but we must also learn to identify those "scumbags" and not let them harm us.

Therefore, whether it is in the workplace or in life, you must learn to distinguish these three types of people, and stay away as soon as possible, otherwise you will only suffer.

Stay away from people who ignore the rules

Every company has its own rules. The purpose of formulating rules is to make the company run efficiently and make each individual company more efficient.

A company can only function well if everyone follows the company's rules. However, there are always a few people in every company who ignore the rules.

They often arrive late, leave early, ask for leave if they don't want to go to work, and escape when they encounter difficulties... People who don't follow the rules show a low sense of responsibility.

Each of us will have a herd mentality. Once there are people in a group who ignore the rules, many people in the back will take luck with the rules and follow suit, which will eventually lead to the collapse of the group . Ant Nest".

Disregarding the rules in the workplace may only cost you a job, and disregarding the rules in society is likely to cost you your life. "Don't do evil for small things", and don't let ignoring the rules become a habit.

The reason why we should stay away from people who disregard the rules is first of all the "black people who are close to the ink". If you stay with such people for a long time, you will be easily assimilated; secondly, the people who ignore the rules are extremely selfish people, because they are for personal reasons. Interests defy the rules, and they may also do anything against you when their interests are relevant to you.

We must not envy those who have gained some benefits by breaking the rules, and one day they will repay them double.

As Zweig said: "All the gifts of fate have already marked their prices in secret." What's more, you got it by luck?

stay away from people who complain

Whether it is in life or in the workplace, there will always be people who seem to be possessed by "wrongful spirits". They seem to be dissatisfied with everything, but never find the reason in themselves.

The work didn't go well, because the colleagues didn't cooperate well; the business didn't work out, because the client was too harsh; I couldn't get a promotion, because the leader had an opinion on him... In short, all the factors were external and had nothing to do with me.

Around this kind of person, you will be full of negative energy every day, and complaints will be contagious, and you will become the kind of person you hate at some point.

People who blame others are also selfish people. They don't know how to reflect, let alone take responsibility. As long as their own interests are damaged, they will subconsciously feel that it is someone else's problem, and sometimes even deceive others.

Therefore, we must stay away from such people who blame others, do not let their emotions affect us, and do not let their selfishness hurt us.

We must not only stay away from such people, but also must avoid becoming such people. When encountering problems, we must first reflect on ourselves. If our thinking does not change, many things cannot be solved.

Stay away from "poor-hearted" people

It is not scary for a person to be poor, money can be earned little by little, but the one who is afraid is the poor at heart. If you are poor, you may only stay at the bottom of society all your life.

What is a poor person?

You may have encountered this kind of person in the workplace. They take some A4 paper from the company today, and a few pens from the company tomorrow... In short, they are the kind of people who can't do anything and make a small and cheap first place.

Maybe you will say: take a stack of paper and a few pens from the company, it is not something valuable, what does it matter?

Indeed, for the value of these items, it is not worth much, and the people who take these items are not short of money to buy them. And they are poor at heart, and their greed in their bones makes them lose some dignity in front of "little cheap".

If you look closely, you will find that such people are generally short-sighted, they only care about the small interests in front of them, and make themselves look unprofessional.

People who are poor at heart will not have a big pattern, and the pattern and vision often determine the outcome of a lifetime. They don't understand that there is nothing cheap in this world, and whoever wants to take advantage will suffer a lot.

There is no money to make, but people who are too small are destined to go far. So we stay away from those who are poor at heart, because at some point, they will count on you.

In society, it is easy to hide with open guns, but difficult to guard against hidden arrows. Recognizing people should be a must-have skill for everyone. It will not only make you less hurt, but also make you look at yourself and make yourself a better person. .

I have always believed that it is not the level of effort that widens the gap between people, but the thinking, vision and pattern.

Some people are trapped in their own inherent self-interested thinking, and become poor and complaining;