The monthly salary of a female graduate student is 14,000 yuan, and she bluntly said that her boyfriend's debt of 200,000 yuan is not suitable for marriage.

Nowadays, many young people have begun to become adults after entering first-tier cities. Everyone will face some pressures in life and work. Even if the salary is high and the benefits are better, thinking about the pressure in all aspects, in fact, Everyone will have a lot of headaches.

Recently, the author saw a female graduate student who shared the real situation of her work in a first-tier city and the life pressure she faced. Now this female graduate student earns 14,000 a month, but she and her boyfriend have been in love for three years. Not long after, she just learned that her boyfriend's family has nearly 200,000 in debt, so the female graduate student felt that her boyfriend was not suitable for marriage, because if the debt of her boyfriend's family increased after marriage, it would only add too much pressure to them out of thin air.

Moreover, the income of the family may not be able to meet the normal expenses, so it will definitely be under a lot of pressure in the long run, and it is even possible to give up on oneself, and there will be many conflicts between the families.

Many netizens also started heated discussions after seeing it. One netizen complained: In fact, every young person should understand that after entering social work, there is no word "easy" in the dictionary of adults. Everyone is in the society. Of course, you need to face all kinds of hardships. Of course, most of them are due to financial and material pressure, so it is very difficult to get along in the society. However, if everyone has no vision, then it is impossible to find a satisfactory marriage partner. .

The author also suggests that this graduate student should adjust her mentality in a timely manner when faced with difficulties and troubles. After all, she has found a suitable and stable job in a first-tier city. Problems affect her career in the workplace. Maybe this girl doesn't want to change herself, let alone change her inner thoughts, but now she has encountered a fact that cannot be changed. Graduate students must not escape, and must bear it together with her boyfriend.

Because if you choose to break up at this stage, it will definitely not be good for your future development. After all, when you are looking for your next love partner, in fact, graduate students may also face the same situation. If they encounter certain troubles or difficulties, they will escape. , and his good attitude is not so successful in society, and there is no way to find a suitable marriage partner.

The author thinks: graduate students should plan their future development with their boyfriends and tighten their belts. In this case, if you can get through the difficulties with your boyfriend, then you will find that you can work and live in the future. As you become more and more mature, the burden on your body will become lighter and lighter. Because this is the wealth that can only be obtained through your hard work and perseverance. The fact that two people can reach the end is actually the greatest capital.