No matter how bad a person is in middle age, don't do three absurd things at the wine table, others will only say you are confused
When people reach middle age, there are many practitioners who can't find their own position in the company, and the more they live, the more confused they are, and they always do some absurd things when they are attending dinner parties, so these middle-aged people are actually here. After the middle-aged stage, it is really getting worse and worse, and there is no way to have long-term development.
Therefore, the author hereby also advises everyone to remember, especially when attending important dinners, that the following three absurd things cannot be done at the wine table, because when you act as a person, you will find that your words and deeds have offended you. A large number of colleagues and leaders, everyone will only call you stupid.
First, to vent negative energy by drinking alcohol
When some middle-aged people are in their thirties or forties, they always feel that their work or life is very painful, and they think that it is actually imposed by their leaders or colleagues, so they often blame themselves, and they will pass the wine table. Drink to vent negative energy, whether it's self-blame or worry, or even remorse.
In fact, middle-aged people should confide in their family members or friends, so that everyone can give you some advice. If you always do such activities at the wine table, it will only make everyone feel that you have no sense of responsibility, and It will also affect your physical and mental health. Sometimes when you do something wrong, you should choose the right time to apologize to others, so that you can be relieved, and you can get more understanding from others, but if you always borrow alcohol to get drunk, then in fact Really a very confusing performance.
Second, punish others by toasting or drinking, threatening others
When people reach middle age, in fact, both work and life become more and more difficult, especially those middle-aged people who are more professional and very strict with themselves, seeing some colleagues or friends around them are not aggressive, so they They punished each other by drinking alcohol, but they didn't think differently, and they didn't understand other people's feelings, so over time, other colleagues in the company would be disgusted to get along with these middle-aged people. After the middle-aged people reach the age of 30, You should learn to be kind to yourself, and you should also learn to be kind to others.
Third, I'm sorry not to drink
In fact, when drinking with colleagues or leaders around you, you should do more subtraction, because you need to spend a lot of time to accompany your family, family and children to entertain and live. This is actually your protection, but some middle-aged people are at the wine table. The boss was embarrassed to stop drinking, and they were embarrassed to refuse the leader's persuasion.
In fact, you are hurting yourself and others. If you don’t know how to give up and let go, you will only suffer a lot of resentment at the wine table. And everyone will have more unreasonable demands on you in future wine bureaus. Therefore, middle-aged people should adhere to principles and bottom lines at any stage. No matter how the other party persuades them to drink, they should learn to refuse politely, and don't let the other party leave illusions. In the middle-aged stage, you can actually recognize yourself and find your position. This is actually an experience that most middle-aged people need to learn.