Networking in the workplace is not as useful as you think. The reason is very realistic. The sooner you know the better.
When you are a small person in the workplace, anyone will use you and use you. When they use you and use you, they never look at you, because you are just a grass, only when you become a towering tree. Only then will others raise their heads and face your existence, so it is better to accumulate contacts in the workplace to make others pity you, it is better to enhance your high self-worth, let others take the initiative to come to you on the street corner, and finally achieve a win-win situation. You must know that relying on contacts is worthless. Success is undoubtedly Looking at the moon in the water seems to be close to success, but it is actually far away, so when you are at the bottom, your connections are not as useful as you think:
First, the personal status is not equal
Whether it is in our life or in the workplace, many people want to use others to help in the future, but you must know that when you look at it from top to bottom, you are a smiling face, and when you look at it from the bottom up, you are a butt. You must know that you have no value. Ask others for help, they will ignore you at all, because your status is not equal to his, in other words you have a lot of things to help him, but he has nothing to help you, people are real, they only pay without return, Why help you.
Second, the other party does not get value
No matter in our life or in the workplace, anyone's resources are limited. They don't come out of the water or float from the sky. These resources are exchanged through his sweat. How can you help you because you have a little friendship with him? You must know that friendship is never important. You must know that in this society, some are just interests, and some are just business. Not true.
Third, what is the value of yourself
Whether it is in our life or in the workplace, if you want to use others to help you in your business network, you must think about what value and benefits you can bring to others. If you want to get his help, you must give He brings benefits, otherwise why would you help you? Many people are always ambitious and always say that they know some big people, but big people don't know him, so they never do anything down-to-earth, so nothing is accomplished.
Du Yuesheng once said, you are like a carp. After five hundred years of cultivation, you can jump to the Dragon Gate, but I am a loach in the river. I have to cultivate for a thousand years to transform into a carp, and then cultivate for another five hundred years. Qualified to jump the gantry. Therefore, no matter what I do, I can only succeed and not fail. If we both fall down at the same time, you will only return your carp body, but I will turn back into a loach.