Girl, you can be beautiful, but you can live beautifully

At ten o'clock at night, a reader sent a message:

Uncle Ha, I am a girl from the countryside. I will be 30 years old next year. I am not good-looking and have a low education. It has been five years since I came to Shanghai. I just finished working overtime and caught the last bus to go home. The city is so big that I can't see any hope, I don't know where the future is, I really want to cry!

To be honest, I've never been good at comforting people.

I told her, cry if you want to cry, just cry when you're done, don't give up looking for the meaning of life, you may not be beautiful, you may not be beautiful, but you can still live beautifully.

I know that such consolation is actually pale.

But I also believe that when she's done crying and out of that emotion, she can regain her strength.

Today's article, I want to send it to many people who are in confusion and struggling in the quagmire of despair.

Girl, you can be beautiful, but you can live beautifully

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Ordinary, is the background color of most people

The reader said, I am from the countryside, I am not good-looking, and my education is not high...

There is a bit of inferiority in the words, because it is really too ordinary, and if you throw it in the crowd, you will no longer be able to find it, you will not be able to find it.

But what I want to say is that this is the life of most people.

In fact, the vast majority of people are so ordinary, with no prominent family background, no stunning appearance, no dazzling education, and no superior talent.

Studying in an ordinary school, holding an ordinary salary, working an ordinary job, and living an ordinary life, working hard for fuel, rice, oil, and salt, worrying about not being able to afford a house, arguing over trivial matters, and living a life of a feather.

Ordinary is the background color of most people in this world.

This is the truth, and it is the truth that I hope everyone can face up to.

A person’s so-called maturity is actually being able to accept that he is an ordinary person, that his family is an ordinary person, and that he can accept that he lives an ordinary life.

This is not only a sign of a person's maturity, but also a very important criterion for measuring whether his life is truly quality.

Because once you have this kind of awareness and maturity, you can accept and look down on some people and things that made you feel pain and disappointment, and your mood and mentality will be greatly improved.

You will no longer complain that your parents are incompetent, your lover is incompetent, and you will no longer struggle with why others can easily have them, but you can't;

You will no longer feel dejected for not being able to be the best, not being able to shine brightly, or even despair and world-weary, and lose hope in life;

Girl, you can be beautiful, but you can live beautifully

You will no longer force your child to become a dragon and become a phoenix, to become the son of the emperor, ignoring whether the child is really happy, ignoring his interests and dreams;

So, when you can't bear the crit of life, when you feel that life is boring, when you are anxious and desperate, I hope you can read this article today, maybe you will not be so pessimistic anymore.

To tell the truth, you are born ordinary, you are not beautiful, you live in a rented house, and you have a job that is not very satisfactory. These are no big deal. Your life is far from being exhausted. Don't give up on life.

Ordinary people have the way of life of ordinary people, and you who were born ordinary can also live beautifully.

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You can be beautiful, but you can live beautifully

There are many things in life that are out of control. Everyone can't choose their own birth, and there is no way to predict the future, but we can control ourselves and choose how to face them.

This is also the biggest reason why we can live beautifully even though we are born ordinary.

Some people can't help but ask: what kind of life is to live beautifully?

There is no standard answer, but I have a few insights to share with you.

Don't be enslaved by money, truly understand the meaning of making money

Frankly speaking, living a beautiful life is often inseparable from money, but I hope you can understand the meaning of earning money and not be enslaved by money.

We work hard to make money, not to have a lot of wealth piled up there, then become a miser.

We make money to have the capital to go where we want to go, to do what we like, to love the people we like, and to realize our own value.

So, don't be enslaved by money, don't ignore your family, give up your dreams, or even the bottom line of being a human being in order to make money.

Otherwise, no matter how much money you earn, it’s actually worthless and completely meaningless.

Girl, you can be beautiful, but you can live beautifully

Don't be restricted by age, don't be trapped by the shackles of the world

In the same way, I also hope that you will not be limited by age, and do not compromise with your dreams, love, and reality because of your age.

A beautiful life does not necessarily require getting married and having children. It is not a program that has been set, and what age to do.

Don't be caught in the shackles of the world, don't let everything happen, go after your dreams, pursue and protect those you like.

This may sound a bit selfish, but I think that people who love themselves can often love others.

Don't be crushed by reality, laugh at the ups and downs of life

Some people will ask, many people are destined not to stay in big cities. If they knew this, why would they jump in?

I want to ask him, when we leave this world, we are destined not to take anything with us. If we knew this, why would we still struggle?

The reason is the same, what we chase is not the result, but the process, the ups and downs encountered in the process.

There is a line in the movie "Paradise Cinema": If you don't go out for a walk, you will think this is the whole world.

In our life, we focus on perceiving this world and understanding this world, otherwise it would be too wasteful to come here once.

Feel the love, find the love, pass the love

Throughout all literary works, film and television works, these things that give people spiritual nourishment are ultimately inseparable from one word: love.

The most precious part of life is usually associated with love.

I hope you can feel love, discover the beauty of this world, and pass on love, warm others, and warm the world.

In my opinion, this kind of life is really beautiful.

Mayday sang in the song:

As long as the aspirations of this life are ordinary and happy, who says that this is not great?

Ordinary, ordinary and ordinary life, across the mountains and the sea, through the sea of ​​people, tasted the ups and downs, been hit by life, and been nourished by love, how can such a life not be beautiful?

Ordinary as you and me, beautiful as you and me!

Encourage yourself!