After 30, 4 abilities that will put you on the road

Many people have misunderstandings about "standing at thirty".

Master Confucius said, “At fifteen I set my mind on learning, at thirty I stood firm, at forty I was free from doubts, at fifty I knew the mandate of heaven, at sixty my ears were obedient, at seventy I followed my heart’s desires and never crossed the line.

In fact, standing at 30, the "standing" here does not mean starting a family and starting a business, nor does it mean having a house, a car or a career.

To be precise, it means that when a person reaches the age of 30, on the basis of the learning and experience accumulation in the previous stage, he should establish the attitude and principle of dealing with others and life, and have the ability to do well in the second half of life.

It is undeniable that the age of 30 is indeed an important milestone in life.

Many things, after the age of 30, will really change a lot, which is also a point that cannot be ignored.

In this article today, I will talk about what abilities you should have on the road of life after the age of 30, and what abilities you should have that will make you better and better.

There are four main points.

After 30, 4 abilities that will put you on the road

01

Ability to withstand stress, ability to make oneself happy

Objectively speaking, the pressure of most people will increase with age, as the roles they play increase, and the scenes will increase, and then they will increase.

Once you were looking for a job, and there were 10 jobs waiting for you in front of you, but when you are over 30 years old, if you look for a job again, you may only have 2 jobs;

Once you got a salary of 3,000 yuan a month and lived very handsomely, but when you are over 30 years old and you get 6,000 yuan a month, you may be stretched;

Once you were just someone else's child, but after you are 30 years old, you are likely to have another identity: a parent.

These are very real problems. If you ignore them, if you are not prepared at all, you may end up being abused even worse.

After the age of 30, you should have a certain degree of stress resistance and the ability to make yourself happy.

This is important, and often the beneficiaries of this ability are not just yourself, but your family as well.

If you're overwhelmed, overwhelmed by pressure, then talking about everything else is basically meaningless.

How much crit can you withstand, how much pressure you can withstand, and how beautiful your life can often be.

02

Ability to judge, do what is right for you

Some things that can be done before the age of 30 may not be suitable for doing after the age of 30; some things that can be done when you are young may not be suitable when you are older.

I don't think this is prejudice against age or self-imposed limitations, but a rare maturity and sanity.

A truly mature person often does not do the most right thing, but does the thing that suits him best.

After the age of 30, you should have your own opinions and judgments, independent analysis and thinking, and can no longer follow what others say.

This is also important.

After 30, 4 abilities that will put you on the road

Some people are not young, but they are still immature and have no opinion. The big reason is that they lack the ability to think and judge independently.

Once a person lacks this ability, the direction of moving forward is often deviated, inefficient, or even ineffective.

Don't follow in the footsteps of others. Everyone has their own time zone and their own path. In the days to come, you should take the path that suits you, so that you can have a productive life.

03

Ability to start over, resist risk

When a person enters middle age, the most unbearable thing is often a change. A big change can cost half of his life.

However, the most important thing in life is always change.

In the morning, I clocked in and went to work, humming a little song, drinking wolfberry tea, and suddenly the notification came, and you will not come tomorrow.

Exaggeration is exaggeration, but to be honest, the changes in life really come as they say, you can never know what tomorrow will be like and what will happen.

After the age of 30, you should have the ability and courage to start over and resist unknown risks.

Many unfortunate lives, weak lives, and vulnerable lives are often due to the lack of such abilities.

This truth, in fact, you should understand before the age of 30, you should be prepared.

Starting anew, soldiers will come to block, water will come to cover, often all need a bit of real strength and a few brushes.

04

Ability to learn to keep yourself competitive

Continuing the above question, what if there is no such cognition before the age of 30?

Then please have this ability: the ability to learn.

After 30, 4 abilities that will put you on the road

In fact, no matter what stage of life you are in, you should have the ability to continue to learn, so that you can keep yourself competitive.

Don't use lack of time and age as an excuse, don't use lack of foundation and poor foundation as an excuse, you need to understand one thing:

Not much talent is born, and no fat man is born with one bite.

Behind any person and thing you admire, there is effort and perseverance that you can't see.

And for you who need to change, the more you drag on, the less likely you are to get out of the predicament quickly.

The reason is understood, the emphasis is on implementation.

If you can have the four abilities shared today, even if you don’t, if you can deliberately cultivate them from now on, your life will be very hopeful to go up and uphill.

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